Are people with ADHD cut out for corporate America? I feel exhausted by Friday due to masking all day every day.

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It’s hard to get through the day sometimes. And I’m really hard on myself. But I think overall I do a pretty good job at work, the stress I feel is mostly self-imposed, and I make good money that enables me to do fun, fulfilling things outside of work. So — not really, but we can make it work anyway? Living and succeeding with ADHD (for me) is about adapting, doing things even though they’re hard or scary, and getting better gradually over time.

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Everyday is exhausting. But meds help.

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I'm on Adderall ER, then I take a very low dose immediate release toward the end of the day to keep from crashing.

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I go back and forth. On the one hand I do much better with structure and corporate America gives me that. Plus $$. On the other hand, it’s less forgiving of my inconsistencies and doesn’t always reward my hyper focuses in the way I wish it did

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