Should I just quit the legal field?

I have been a paralegal or legal assistant since 2010. I have worked for small and large firms and a TPA. I've worked in L&E, PI, and ID. Billing hours gave me nightmares. Right now I'm in a hybrid paralegal/LA position where I'm responsible for all of the docketing and supporting the managing partner and 1 associate and their 90+ ID caseload. I make a lot of mistakes everywhere I work. I feel so incompetent. Should I just abandon this career path?

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First, congrats on making it this far. Sending hugs. Second, sorry you feel so bad about your mistakes. Has anyone said anything to you about the mistakes or are you berating yourself?

Something to think about, What do you think is the root? Do you think the environment is too fast and maybe something slower like appellate work or government would be a better fit? Maybe there’s something else going on? I’m also a bit dyslexic so reading large documents for long periods of time bothers me.

Don’t give up, you’ve made it too far.

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