Are weddings too commercialized and does the orchestration of the average American wedding miss-emphasize what is important? I’m so EXCITED to be married. But also, I’m like dang, weddings have more time, communications, and funds being dedicated to random wedding contractors rather than bride / groom. It feels like there are a lot of distractions from what is important.

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they are but it's not just the US. There are other cultures/countries that have multi-day celebrations and it's not uncommon to have 1000+ guests. Don't do anything you don't want to. It's your day and perfectly fine to have something more low key and simple. You may enjoy that far more!

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Not for nothing but have you ever seen other culture’s weddings? I 100% agree with you but also understand that for some, this is the biggest day of their life and they want it to be this next level magical experience. To each their own as who are we to tell someone else what day they should overemphasize. And I’m terms of America, anything someone can get you to spend money on, they will extract every cent they can. Capitalism

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Don’t feel obligated to do all the “traditional” or “expected” things for your wedding. No one is going to notice if you don’t spend $500 on a cake that tastes like cardboard or if you don’t have 14 people in your wedding party. Only do (and pay for) what’s important to you.

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As like most things in the US.

Valentine’s Day is also a good one.

Valentine’s Day is much worse than weddings. Completely made up holiday and doesn’t mark anything important.

At least a wedding marks an important life moment and is culturally important in almost all of the worlds cultures.

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Have you ever been to a wedding? This isn’t new 🤷🏼‍♂️

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