Advice on dating someone long distance? Kinda big price tag just to see each other.

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DON’T do it

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You guys should have an end point of when the long distance would end. Or else it would be hard to see a future with this person, which could make it hard to put effort in. Communicate with this person with how you guys want to keep in touch.

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I think question of literal worth comes up. If price is too high might need to rethink if you’d be willing to make it work.

Generally I think communication is very important. Going through it now. We do make it point to see each other in person though. And we have a definitive timeline that we will be next to each other permanently. Otherwise we both know it’s not going to be fruitful

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Going through this now. Even though we were dating for 2+ years before being long distance it is still tough. Doesn’t change how you feel about the other person, but distance does challenge you

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