Are you willing to date someone who smokes or vapes or are those deal breakers? I hate being around smokers but somehow, I always end up dating guys who smoke.

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Dealbreaker for me. But also I have asthma so I can't really breathe around them

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So don’t date them lol, how do you ‘end up’ dating a smoker if you don’t like smokers?

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Usually, I'll be hanging out with friends or coworkers and one of their friends will be there and slowly over time, their personality grows on me and I ignore the smoking thing.

Not anymore. It became apparent that she liked smoking more than she liked me.

If I hated smokers, no I would not date a smoker

A woman who smokes Ganja is really attractive compared to a woman who just smokes cigarettes which I find repulsive.

Gross. I will never be with a man who smokes.

Vapes? Maybe. It depends on how much and where. And if it’s a permanent change or if he’s at risk to go back to smoking.

As for pot - no to that too. Ingest it, don’t smoke it. Modern pot stinks to high heaven.

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