My date won’t share his playlist with me (I can listen to it but he won’t share it). Just curious, is playlist a big deal to guys? We are both at early 20s and only dated for a week

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Find more important things to care about.

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I can share even my credit card with you.

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OMG ... Such petty issues lol ... You can keep the music taste different and all ..what's the issue here ?

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No. That’s weird. Really weird.

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What else to care about at early 20s? Global warming? Ukraine war?

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Literally anything else…felt like my niece wrote that. She’s 7.

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Leave this man in the playground where he belongs. I'll give you my credit card and house keys

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Tell him he can’t play with you anymore.
He can see the toys, just doesn’t get to play with them.

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Are you putting out? Maybe try that to see if he gives you the playlist?

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He might just feel kind of embarrassed about it. I listen to a lot of alternative music that might seem really weird to people who aren’t familiar with it so there are definitely playlists I would feel embarrassed to share. If he’s really into finding unique music this could be the case

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Maybe he DJs at night and this becomes his competitive advantage.

You can Shazam each song and create your own 🤷🏽

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“Early 20s” lol sure. FBI open up

Is this on Spotify? He might be worried that if he shares it w you that other people will be able to see that he’s shared his playlist with you. Why that would be a concern of his I can only speculate but no reason that’s legitimate

Lawd! 🤦‍♀️

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