Broke up with my GF a few months ago then tried to get her back recently. I knew it wasn’t the right move, but I did it anyway because I missed her. We didn’t get back in the end thankfully.

To all those that have gotten out of relationship recently, don’t try to chase something that you know won’t work because you miss it. It’ll hurt but you just need to move on.

When I dropped my kids off at daycare this morning, the car next to me had a #milflife car tramp stamp, and I have just so many questions.

Question for those who are married or about to be : how did you know he/she was the one? And how long did it take you to realize it?

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

First baby, already saving in a 529 and UTMA Brokerage for him, what else can be done? Open to ideas on how to best set him up for future success - at least financially

Anyone ever go to your kids career day and try to explain what you do to kindergarteners? Thoughts on making it cool/interesting?

I was reading a post in another group that asked how folks were celebrating Diwali outside of India and 2 people mentioned that their whole street (in the US) exchanged sweets, put up lights, and pitched in for a community firecrackers permit. This had me wondering if this happened in the US for Eid as well in cites where there is a big Muslim population. Also, how do you all celebrate Eid? For folks who are grew up in the west, is there anything you plan on doing differently with your kids?

Anyone recently completed their visa process with PwC? Please advise on time taken by PwC for CoS alone and overall visa.

Have offers for AMEX and VISA at a Senior Manager Strategy role. Both offers are almost identical in base and annual bonus.

Which firm has faster growth to Director and better long term success?

#Amex #Visa

How to FIRE with kids? No kids for us yet but wife and I do FIRE and we’re wondering if it’s even possible with kids. Just takes longer maybe?

My gf and me call each other everytime we have free time. However lately she seems disinterested in phone time. She never initiates calls anymore and she tells me she wants to hang up in the middle of the day and not right before bedtime. We live a 4 hour drive apart. And I told her this is like living together from a distance, because I put her on the house speakers. What can I do to keep her engaged?

I have a job offer in Australia and the company is offering to apply for a TSS visa for me. But they can't give me any idea on timeline. I've heard anything from a month to 9 months. Has anyone here gone through this and knows how long it would take during Covid times?

I have a friend interested in a Real estate Client Associate role at Chase. May I ask what the salary range is for this role in the SF Bay Area?

Happy Ganesh Chathurthi! May Lord Ganesha destroy all your Visa issues and fill your life with love and happiness!

We have a opening for someone 7-8 years of experience in finance reporting domain JPMorgan Chase . Person should be good in advanced excel powerpoint. Alteryx or tableau exp would be added advantage. Dm if you / any your acquaintance is interested

Trump just signed an EO banning any new work visas. As someone on a work visa, I am going through Twitter to find more information and I couldn’t believe the amount of hate I am seeing in this country for legal immigrants. As co-workers, do you guys really think that immigrants are stealing your jobs?

Hi all, myself and my wife are looking to move to charlotte. We are in Canada and are looking to move to charlotte on TN visa. Are there any job agencies that can help finding suitable jobs?

Currently preparing to take the principal and superintendent certification tests. Are there any suggestions for great leadership books or pd for actual day-to-day roles/interactions?

I am beyond stuck in my first 1.5 years of my career.

I was over promised opportunities at my first gig and then Covid hit. Leading me to have no portfolio worthy pieces from this 💩 agency with nothing great in sight. (place hasn’t won a pitch in my entire time here + lost clients)

I’m juggling re-vamping my site and a side project to hopefully make my book more robust.

With no kind of leadership or mentor, I’m just figuring out how to dig myself out of this hole. Any advice for this chump?

Which one is high level post member technical staff or software engineer?

I want to get my masters in HR, but I also want to get my phr.. is it better to get one over the other? Or should I do both. Are there any masters hr program someone can recommend?

Ok finally caught up with the Lululemon hype lol I absolutely love this running leggings I got? What are some good cheap alternatives? I like that it just stays on place and feels so soft.

I 485 question - I do not have any vaccination record from my home town. It is a small village. I am thinking of getting the required vaccination here in US. Will insurance cover my vaccination?

Any beach Hotel recommendations is Malaga, SP and Marbella, SP (<$300/night could be slightly more)?
Also, im a US citizen does it make sense to get an Int'l drivers license, rent a car and drive between those places? Any easy way of getting between those places?

Hi Fishes, I will be joining TCS Microsoft BU this month as a Test Automation Engineer with 7+ YOE. I had final discussion with HR and offer is expected this week. Any idea which Domain's projects I will be getting in this BU. Also, please share tips to get onsite opportunity.

Hi data engineers !!

I am recently switching my domain from data analyst to data engineering..I am not that good in programming..Can anyone tell me how much programming is needed for day to day work as a data engineer..??

Is anyone in Experience Strategy/Transformation in the Netherlands willing to chat about a referral?

I am planning a move there from Canada throughout the summer (and eligible to work there)

Happy to provide more information

Anyone work for VMware who can provide a referral for a Senior Project Manager roles?

Any thoughts on the eLearning space?

Which grade is higher 601 or 602 or 603 ?

How is the infostretch UK? Is it good for career growth? I am an Architect and would like to continue my career in being an Architect. I have heard that people working on Goldman Sachs projects have higher visibility than others. Please advise whether I should join as I will be assigned to non-GS project.

Has anyone received a job offer after being initially ghosted by recruiter? How long did you not hear from them? Feeling down after not hearing anything for 2 weeks after a round of seemingly promising interviews.

Any company hiring for Software engineer role with 1+ yoe experience, Please let me know, I'm searching for a job.
Thanks in advance!!

No desire to work today. Anyone else in the same boat?

When I dropped my kids off at daycare this morning, the car next to me had a #milflife car tramp stamp, and I have just so many questions.

Question for those who are married or about to be : how did you know he/she was the one? And how long did it take you to realize it?

To the people against abortion: What if someone was raped and got pregnant?

Finally got my keystone master achievement!!!

My father wants to buy dogecoin (yes, now) and I’m annoyed because I can think of hundreds of other ways he can spend that money. But, he’s determined and convinced it’ll make him rich in 2 years.

Let’s see how this post ages..

Why did I just listen to that Jeffrey Bezos song. Stuck in my head. 🤦‍♂️

I’m so grumpy about new campus hires. Sometimes I’m judgmental (your hobby is “working on your golf swing,” really?). Sometimes I’m just exhausted by the worried earnestness. Sometimes I’m amazed that they seem to have zero useful skills, yet they’ll be making 150k easily in the not too distant future.

Who here has sold photos of their feet?

I was about to talk trash about my truck driving friends and blame them for my heatwave related problems. Then I remembered that I drive an SUV, not zero emission, and I'm not doing much better for the environment than they are. I'll just ask them what if the climate change believers are right and see what they say.

When the pandemic is over, will miss three things - remote work, mask mandates and social distancing!

My friend’s dad was a firefighter during 9/11 who died very young because of lung cancer. He was one of those who were denied coverage. She was just having a really hard time this week. Her boss knows this and told her last Friday with a straight face that she’s sulking. Some of these VC people man.

No offense, but I’ve never heard a sea shanty that didn’t go hard as hell

your best quote

she's a 10 but excel thinks she's an October

I came to US few years ago , I have a heavy accent and still struggle to express myself fluently at times. Any advice on best online resources to help with my accent/fluency?

Online dating apps are a mess 🤢

Decided to give a guy another chance after politely turning him down. Turns out my intuition was damn right about his ego… trust your intuition folks, not worth it.

My ethnicity makes me a minority but I would never join a minority affinity/business resource group. I think it creates separation which can lead to an “us versus them” mentality - a step backwards. Aren’t we supposed to respect or work towards respecting each other without the need to form institutions to make things “official”? I’d like to hear some thoughts from people who disagree and if they are in these groups or not