Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

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Borrow more and try again. Do it till it's out of your system. Then declare bankruptcy and start over.

How much have you lost so far?

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Something about the dopamine rush. Honestly maybe declare bankruptcy and start over. Have someone else control your money and not you. It's weird when u have a gambling addiction in a capitalist society. You can't just not have money, but you need to remove yourself from the thrill of taking chances with it at all costs

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