Came back from maternity leave earlier this year and have been struggling with having a seat at the table during deals. I am moving from a delivery focused role to being more sales oriented. I was previously ambitious and a high performer so this feels like a slump. Any advice on how to navigate moving forward?

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No advice but I’m in almost the exact same situation. I go back and forth between feeling really frustrated with myself and motivated to push and do a million new things, vs feeling no motivation to do more because I just cherish any extra time with my baby.

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