Even thinking about leaving feels disloyal. Why does this profession treat departure like betrayal?

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It’s literally just a job

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I think it depends on how long you’ve been with the firm and how much effort the firm took to train you. The concern I have is that there are firms that train you but don’t encourage or promote your growth. Yet, the same firm expects you to stay long term.

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That’s where faith has to step in. But another concern I have is after making the decision to part ways with a firm, how to grapple with clients you’ve had for years and who may now feel depressed that they have to adjust to a new personality handling their matter; retelling their story again but to a new face.

Because most firms were and are organised as partnerships and there is a historic idea of that word meaning something even if it does no longer.

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