Ngl this crisis just affirmed my decision about not wanting to have kids. Serious props to the parents attempting to simultaneously bill and homeschool their kids.

What's the best relationship advice you've heard recently?

Do people tend to remain close to their siblings after marriage/ getting into a serious relationship? Or does life tend to take over and losing touch is somewhat normal?

My friend slept/has been sleeping with a guy who has a GF and she is pregnant - this happened after I warned her to not do that and it’s a bad fantasy she doesn’t want to experiment with….
I am very sad to the point that I do not want to be friends with her. I feel so bad for the pregnant woman and also mad at the guy and my friend. How should I navigate the situation?

I don’t understand what makes seemingly super sweet and kind people be this way 😭 WTF

Boyfriend got off the phone when the argument was his fault. Thinking about being the bigger person and calling him to resolve it, but realized I’m the one who always calls back and apologizes first. I want him to but also don’t want this to drag on. Thoughts?

Have you ever come across a point in your relationship that got you thinking they weren't the one?

When I ask myself what I'd say if my partner proposed, I wouldn't say yes. They're talking about buying a house but the thought of having anything legally binding to them terrifies me.

We've been together for 5 years, which has me so confused. If you've been with someone for so long, how does this feeling come to be?

How do you handle extended family’s poor financial choices other than distance yourself? Especially when some of their choices affects you and your family?

Iv’e been dating someone for about 6 months now, but it is only recently that we’ve started spending multiple days at a time together. Since spending more time together I’ve realised that we just need seriously different amounts of sleep. Has anyone ever ended things with someone because they just don’t have as much energy as you do? Or is that really ridiculous?

Do you think I’ll meet my future husband in my MBA program? 🤔 this single life is getting real lonely and my parents want grandkids ... I’m 25 🤦🏽‍♂️

What's the number at which you'd consider yourself (or your family) to be financially independent?

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

My cousin is in great shape physically and I know he could get through that part of basic training/boot camp but don't know if he could handle all the yelling because of past trauma he's been through. Thoughts / advice?

My wife and I have 2 children. We got married young and I have handled all expenses since marriage. I've even paid for some of her schooling and have encouraged her to continue finishing her Bachelors (she has difficulty choosing what to study and insinuated that when I mention the drawbacks of certain fields, it puts her off studying at all, she's also in student loan debt because her family took out loans in her name and never paid them off).

Long story short, now we have....

what are the biggest red flags in a distance relationship? I would say being spotty on communication is the biggest one for me.

Well, I was the one who broke it off. I couldn’t get him to love me the way I needed or even respect me enough. It’s been 6 weeks of not seeing each other. We messaged this week. He doesn’t get it…. His messages show he still doesn’t know what he wants. Yet, if I am totally honest, I hate how part of me wishes he would do a grand gesture/finally decide to be a better man. It’s delusional. It’s crazy how love can be so rosy, sweet & blinding that the red flags seem surmountable.

My fiance is working on Axis bank in west bengal. I live in Bangalore. Our marriage is on December end. she will be shifting to Bangalore on January and has sent am email for transfer to Bangalore few times back. BUT not getting any positive response and even no one is replying to her emai.
Looking for suggestions here....

23M here. Anybody have any tips or book recommendations on not feeling haunted by your past and anxiety about the future and consistently stay in a “FLOW STATE”.I’m currently reading the Power of Now. I have a habit of burning bridges because I feel that I’m perpetually trying to fit in and act “cool”. I feel that I’ve always been somewhat unconfident but every year it seems to be more and more difficult to manage and taxing emotionally. I go to the gym 4 times a week, try to eat clean, socializ

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3 months post breakup… I seemed to be healing well and all the sudden this week I took a huge step back and feel heartbroken all over again. For context I was in a 4 year relationship including 1 year engaged and had to call my wedding off due to his infidelity. How can I shake this? 😔

what age did you get married?

My wife often calls me by 5:45/6 to ask where I am if I’m not headed home yet. Sometimes she’s stressed with kids/dogs/dinner and really wants me home. This really throws off my concentration because it makes me feel rushed. Like many practices sometimes I’m out at 5:30, other times it’s much later. Just depends and is unpredictable. Any advice on how to approach this?

Hi Everyone,
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Any United health group remote employees here? I recently accepted an accounting job and some of the onboard makes it seem like I’m only allowed to work from my home office. I usually spend a few weeks a year out of town visiting family and work during this time so I don’t have to use PTO but I’m nervous I won’t be allowed to do that anymore

I joined Amdocs in Smartops unit recently and I am not happy with the work I am getting, its production support. What to do now?

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Is anyone familiar with patient videos that are cool and interesting? (Steps away from the talking head format?)

Quick question I’m new to running - I got some new shoes yesterday and ran in them today is it common to lose some time initially? If so how much per mi. Just trying to see if this was a mental thing?

Anyone buy a Peloton recently? Wanting to invest in one but wondering what delivery is like now.

Any app that can be used for bajaj allianz health insurance use??

Wish this was more active

I’m in need of high protein (low/no sugar) snacks that can be eaten right before I go to sleep every night. Any ideas?

Anyone ever hired a private investigator to look into a family member?

Is anyone still feeling ill a week or more after they were vaccinated?

I got J&J 14 days ago exactly, and I have been feeling really tired, achy, and foggy for the last 5 days. Tested negative for covid. 27F. I know someone else that had a similar reaction, but cleared up 10 days post-jab.

Dr. says side effects only last 1-2 days....

There’s a family member I have to see regularly that I hate so much it almost drives me into a rage. Anyone else have this situation? How do you cope?

Have you ever been interviewing with a company and then several interviews in, you see another role at the same company that was just posted that might also be a good fit?

Would you apply? Ask the recruiter you’ve been talking with? Or not say anything at all because it looks desperate?

Hi all,
I graduated during Covid with a double major in business administration and business management with a minor in marketing and magically ended up in sales because I needed a job. I’m about to take a data analytics course to make an attempt to break into that field. I’m currently looking for a mentor to help guide me during this time. Also, if anyone is willing to look over my resume and give me tips on how to make it more presentable for recruiters in DA that would be very helpful. Thanks

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Which is better to join ???

What makes you choose one law firm over another? What would make it worth leaving your current firm, if you’re not desperate to leave but open to options?

I have this contract with a marketing agency. I know the guy tried really hard and did his best but in the end he didn't pull through and I can get my money back per the contract.

I don't know if 100% is the right amount as he did work hard but he didn't perform. What's the right thing to do?

Does anyone have any experience with NJ mini-COBRA for small businesses? Trying to find an answer to a few questions and coming up empty: (1) what are the penalties for failure to send continuation notice (federal COBRA is $100/day, but don’t see anything in NJ statute or case law); (2) if an employee is terminated for cause are they eligible and must they receive the continuation notice? What constitutes cause (as opposed to gross misconduct under Federal standard)?

Decided to be a good sport today and go into the office for a hybrid meeting. Did the zoom meeting and now I’m sitting in my stuffy office with my shitty system, sending emails. Meanwhile I’ve billed about a .3 all day. Fuck this I’m out.

New Associate at small plaintiff’s employment law firm NYC If my goal is to work for a defense firm in the same field, how fast should I be going for the door? Or is it safe to stay and get exp first

Notice etiquete question. If you give your 2 weeks’ notice on a Monday, is your last day a Monday (2 weeks later) or can it be the previous Friday? Does your answer change depending on the time (morning/ afternoon) notice is given?

If I don’t want to potentially burn any bridges, should I just have my notice period end on a Monday and just take that day out of my scheduled vacation before starting my next job?

First time giving notice - would be interested in hearing what others have done.

Sorry to xpost: would you take a 20k pay cut to move to a HCOL city for a job you think you might like and enjoy? (In-house) I thought I would be staying in my current city for the long term and love it here, but hate my job. New city also has friends and connections, so I wouldn’t be totally alone. Would be going from around 140k to 120k.

Jury selection should be abolished. If we are really supposed to try cases amongst the plaintiff's/defendant's peers, then why the hell are we as lawyers allowed to pick and choose. Cont

I feel like I’m the only one in my office that really understands what’s going on. I live downtown in a major city and saw the extreme violence out my window. My office got vandalized and nobody in my office really seemed to understand. I felt like they were all looking at me like I was overreacting because I did not go into the office today even though we’re all back open. Does anyone else feel this way? How can we get my office to understand?

Client confidentiality question:
I do UHNW luxury good transactions. About a year ago we represented buyer and seller on a deal. Deal fell apart because the buyer was shady and actively trying to engage in illegal acts. Buyer reached out asking us to represent them in a new purchase attempt, we declined.

They found new counsel and made an offer on the same asset. The owner doesn’t wish to engage with them. Can I give the owners reasons to the new counsel without violating duty to my old client

At what point do damages stop accruing in a dec action? My client already remedied the harm and the litigious Plaintiff continues on his journey to trial racking up legal fees.

Legal Assistant working in Arbitration/ International Disputes. Currently looking to pivot into Business Development at a top law firm (preferably NYC).

Multilingual individual in search of professional development. Any leads please DM! Thank you :)

Considering litigation counsel positions in-house for insurance companies (not sure if it's technically with the company itself or one of the local firms they "own," but the applications are with the companies themselves).
None post salary information. I have 5-6 years of solo civil practice experience, including trials at all levels, bench and jury. I'm in Western PA.
Any idea of salaries for some of the different companies? I don't want to undercut myself, or price myself out either. Thanks

What are some good ways to give a less senior attorney constructive criticism when the less senior attorney doesn’t have a good attitude and is the same age? We are working on a matter together, she’s not that great of an attorney (yet) but doesn’t seem to open to accepting critic from me…

Anyone else dealt with negative client feedback? Or negative investor feedback about you, to your client, on a deal, even though you are working your tail off and care immensely? Feels bad man.

I’m in my third year as a construction law associate. Is there any way possible to switch to labor and employment, or am I stuck in this field forever?

I have my own practice what is the issue with taking some contract work as well part time? Would be a nice way to supplement income.

Love my AMLaw 100 firm but it doesn’t have enough work for my specialty (and I feel most of my specialized knowledge is slipping away from me the longer I don’t use it). Do I stay or just lateral? It’s to the point I’m frustrated because I’m doing a bunch of other items outside my practice group. But I don’t want to leave a great group of people if there’s a sliver of a chance it will improve. Thoughts?

I got invited to an interview and remember working with one of the partners previously who I thought was a dick. I turned down the interview and said it was because of him.