Even when I was drinking I didn't go out on NYE. It's a night for amateurs imo. In sobriety I'm delighted to have a quiet night home on my couch with nowhere to be tomorrow.

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Judgy much? You do you, which is amazing. Don’t project.

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Sorry, I meant that lightheartedly but not a joking matter.

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Agree! 💯

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