Eventually it gets to a point where you begin to have dark thoughts. Self-doubt, you question yourself on your abilities, skills and just talking to yourself about yourself.

What a world we live in.

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Are you talking about being on the job market or being in a miserable job? I've had dark thoughts in both, definitely struggling to figure out how to find a job that doesn't make me immediately depressed, but how to not avoid being jobLESS either. I don't know how anyone finds joy working for someone else, I think I'll have to have to be my own boss to feel good in what I'm doing.

I'm sorry you're going through that, but I definitely relate and I've been there myself. Do you have anybody in your life you can reach out to for support? I noticed a big change when I started going to therapy. Being able to talk through my issues with a neutral person who taught me a lot of skills helped a lot. Maybe that could help you too.

The fact that you notice the dark thoughts in the first place is a good sign. I once went so long with that darkness just slowly creeping in and by the time I realized, I was digging myself out of a hole. Made it through, but awareness is key. Keep pushing and overcoming the hurdles.

You're right about that, I think we have all had moments where we question our abilities and whether or not we are cut out for a job. When I have those moments I try to quickly flip the script in my brain and think positively so I don't go down a dark path with my thoughts. Hang in there.

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