For the F 🐠 - is it really that hard out there in your city? What’s been your biggest challenge with finding the right guy? Any regrets not making it work w/ an ex or friend zone guy from the past?

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F@!k boys are rampant in Chicago. Seems like no guy wants responsibilities or a commitment, they seemingly don’t know what’s in front of them and want the next best thing (that doesn’t exist); and then hits you with that 2AM text. No regrets; they’re an ex for a reason!! Tables have turned and honestly it feels good to be a bad girl/f@!k girl.

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My toxic trait is that I say I won’t date any more lawyers or f*ckbois, and I always end up doing just that. 🙄

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Houston, among the guys I have met (not generalizing to all 3 mill odd dudes) - guys my “type” typically have more money than brains/personalities (some are oil money, others are just dumb as rocks or a-holes) and the ones who are interesting and have personalities and hobbies or are nice i just haven’t been attracted to - it’s finding that weird balance really

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Yes, it is really that hard out here for girls

Kansas City. Everyone is married over the age of 40. If not. They’re active alcoholics or sociopaths. Then, there are the guys who like to wear tank tops and collect guns. Then there’s my ex, handsome, funny, tall, good job, became a very mean alcoholic and won’t get help. Would probably go back to him if he sobered up and went to therapy.

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