Any books that you found very helpful to read as expecting parents? We’re just nine weeks along, but would love to start preparing however we can!

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Expecting Better by Emily Oster - it was recommended to me by multiple people and I’m glad I read it. Accessible, funny, easy to read and not too overwhelming - it’s a look at…well…what to expect.

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I’m reading this right now! I really like it. I like how she explain why she found different studies credible, while also really sharing her findings in a very simple way.

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“Happiest baby on the block “ for helping baby transition to his/her new environment earthside. “Precious little sleep” for understanding babys sleep needs by age (constantly changing) and helping establish good sleep hygiene habits as early as possible. Both are for when baby is actually here though, so I’d wait till closer to the due date ( or plan on pulling them back out after babys arrival).

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What to expect when you’re expecting.

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As others have said, Expecting Better. Here are the others I’ve finished:
- Cribsheet - Emily Oster
- Bringing up Bebe
- 12 Hours Sleep by 12 Weeks (similar advice to Bebe regarding sleeping, allowing babies to self soothe, etc.)

Books I’m about to start:
- What to Expect when Expecting
- Baby 411

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