Hi, for those of you who have hit their magic number, was it hard to change your mindset?

We have been living well below our means for years, and just hit $11M NW. Obviously very fortunate to be in this position. My wife and I both work full-time. I’m not ready to retire and also not tempted to splurge on anything. However, I have been thinking of taking my foot off the gas at work a bit. For context, I work 50 hours a week and wife does 40. Advice?

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Your goal number is massive, IMO. I hit mine at 55 and never looked back. I’ve been traveling around the world, reading, getting outside and getting in shape after years behind a desk. I’m never bored, and I’m thinking of volunteering at the local children’s hospital. My life is only limited by my imagination. It’s a wonderful feeling.

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Can you control your schedule a bit more? In my experience, 50 feels a lot different than 40 which feels a lot different than 30.

Same general question for your spouse.

I'm not sure what your spending needs/obligations are/where you live/age, but at $11M HH NW, I'd seriously consider not working at all or pivoting to something like teaching and pretty much living on interest and dividends. At risk free rate, that's a nominal $440k pre tax without even touching principal. Yes, inflation erodes this over time but it sounds like your spend is nowhere near that so you can keep investing.

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Thanks for your thoughts. I enjoy my work and it’s from home so I don’t feel too stretched. I’m not sure what I would do with the extra time—maybe read. I think what would be beneficial is just having less responsibilities all around (if that makes sense).

Because it’s not a necessity and more of a luxury I’ve found myself just delaying it, even though I mathematically don’t need to keep going at that rate. I think it’s a psychological barrier, and almost feels like making a hard adjustment from what we’ve been doing which is saving and delaying gratification.

Is this a joke?

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No. You have 11M you can go work at Walmart and they’ll be taken care of. Or keep working what’s the problem here

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Congratulations! One of the hardest parts of FIRE is not the asset accumulation but knowing when to slow down and focus on the life aspect.

It’s a great idea to start slowing down a bit at work and start figuring out how you’d want to live your life post-FIRE. A successful transition requires you to have a mix of activities that provide physical, mental, emotional and social satisfaction as well as a sense of purpose and structure.

Do you know what that would look like for both you and your wife?

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This is very helpful. I think going from 50 hours to 40 or 35 would be a good first step. We have one client that accounts for that much and though I enjoy working with them, if we were to lose them I think it would force my hand a bit.

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Look up “Get-A-Life tree” it will help in your planning.

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Congratulations! Maybe you can start focusing on the "fulfilling parts" of the job vs. the "grind-y parts". For example: I'm assuming you have a lot of experience under your belt? If so, you can shift a few hours to mentoring more junior resources (if you enjoy this).

That's just an example. I'm in the same boat in that I no longer have to work - I choose to work. This has given me the freedom to get more involved in the parts of the job that are exciting / fulfilling / motivating to me. It's a win-win for me and my company.

Btw, if you don't mind sharing, at what age did you reach your FIRE number?

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I didn’t set a number. I am 41 and it feels like enough.

I (thankfully) got laid off last year by my idiot manager who they kept just long enough before management realized the idiot-ness and laid HIM off. I don’t think anyone else in the company would have let me go, and I still liked the work and the people enough to not want to retire.

But since then, it has been wonderful. Lots of travel. I can sit and enjoy a cup of tea and jigsaw puzzle whenever I want, go hiking or to the beach at any time on any day. Plus volunteer work and all kinds of little projects. Classes at the community college, assistant coaching on sports teams.

I did keep checking in for a while to see how things were going at my previous job. But after a couple of months I didn’t even care enough to do that. (I had documented everything I worked on in preparation for possible retirement, so I didn’t get a lot of questions about my projects. This was to benefit my co-workers, not my idiot manager.)

There is a lot to do in the world, so no, stopping working was not a hard transition.

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Do you plan to (or need to) go back to work at some point?

Ah. If only I could continue mostly remote work. Every place wanted to go back to the pre-cell phone era of 5 days a week and no approved time off.

How did you amass $11m by 41? Really impressive.

The first $1M took forever. I am invested in 100% equities (nothing risky) and it just grew from there.

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43 here and our combined NW is $10m. Similar boat - mixed emotions - some days I have all the energy to grind and other days I want to call it done and go focus on other interests.

Seriously, you’ve got $10m. Enjoy your life!

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