the more I want something, the harder it is to achieve. anyone has this feeling also?

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It depends. I certainly experience this with long term gratification scenarios. We are trained to not be able to wait!

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I feel like it's the opposite for me. With time, and this is important, almost everything I wanted, I've got.

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