Hi Friends,
I have seen that people with govt. job are getting married easily with lots of dowry.

And here I am with 20+ LPA but still not getting any good matches for marriage.

Why such bhedbhav 😭

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Good luck to you! hope you find someone who you can be with for years. Also someone who has job security

Wish I knew the answer to this.

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20L or 50L nothing infront of Government job security.

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@TCS1,
Yes.. He works at Indian Airforce 🇮🇳

Apna haath jagganath..No dowry case,498A.
Respect and love your hand ,it is selfless

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What will you do by getting married? Don't go by what is shown in tv and films. Your life will be screwed up. So enjoy the time you have.

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Shi kaha :)

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and here when people boast of the govt job around me I say , ' Leave man , better I start pulling autorickshaw or open tea stall , I'd earn more ' . who other than lazy donkeys prefer govt. job ? Be a man , learn how to code (for us IT geniuses) and take the goddamn motherf~~~in' money home . You gonna save 1 Crore easily in years and find yourself most beautiful partner you'll ever have , Peace and fu~k off!

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Ek din private company mein kaam karke itna paisa kama lenge humlog ki 10 avg govt job walo ko khareed le

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And here I am with 18 lpa CTC and I am expected to give 30-35 lakh dowry to the girl's family.

If I am okay to marry someone illiterate or divorced or widowed, then the amount is around 15-20 lakhs.

All this happens only if I want to marry in my caste/community.

And it's not finished yet, IF I marry someone from outside of my caste they the community elders will ostracize/remove my family from the community unless I pay penalty of around 10-20 laks.

BC life jhand ho gya hai.

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Bhai jitna dowry Dene ki soch raha utne me badhiya row houses mil jate hain Lucknow me bhai... Tu aa ja yaha aur rah... Ekdam no. 1 ki city hai aur mast life kategi idhar..!! Shadi ke liye ladkiyan bhi dhero mil jayengi tumko Matrimonial websites se..!! Gaand marane de apne gaanv ke chutiye sarpancho ko...!! 100-200 gaali likh ke bhi aana unke liye

U are from which state ?

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From Delhi but native place is Ballia UP

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Job security

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Sick Indian mentality

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Exactly

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Age?

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Yehi haal hai bhai hum IT walo ka

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Kitna mil raha hai dowry 😛

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I agree....but she is not mentally ready for marriage.

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What if that private company is Google,Microsoft or anything better
What if that person is in higher management in the private job?

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Many people in North don't know google, Microsoft. They know tcs, infosys. I have heard they are ready to give girls to employees in tcs and infy.

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Because Most of Indians still live in pre independence India, (pre 1947), and they have no access to Internet and Google and Don't know the Salaries in Software Industry and full form of LPA, My uncle is in govt job grade B officer (recently promoted from Grade C) and his current inhand salary is less than mine (and I'm just starting in my career).
You better get away from such people having such mentality, they will realize their mistake soon when they see you roaming in your Mercedez or Audi, and you buying your bunglaw or House then they will compare the rented car amd house of a govt. Job with you and feel terrible about it, or if Modi govt. Extends Agniveer scheme in all govt. Jobs or Privatize the current govt. Industry then they will cry for a guy like you but then please humbly reject them and their daughter.

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Bhai L&T mein job lelo.. ladki wale hamesha impressed hote hai L&T ke naam se... Personal experience se bata raha hoon

Woh toh theekh hai but tcs wale se shaadi karne par haath mein katora lekar ghumna hoga

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What's your age?

Age 25

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Tcs chale ja bhai

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