Hi, I’m having a hard time coping with being ‘quietly fired’. The process has been ongoing for some time and I know I need to move on for my own sanity. My self esteem is crushed and I’ve no idea what to say to potential employers about why I’m leaving my current job, much less the confidence to apply anywhere new.
Hoping for some advice please from anyone else who may have experienced this?

Who was at the ADCC? Thoughts on the NABs stunt?

Anyone looking for a apartment in Philadelphia? Would include an already existing roommate but rent is ~1100 a month and you’d have your own bedroom and bathroom. Apartment is in center city area.

Hello 👋🏻
Anybody with retention marketing experience (particularly adopting a new CRM system in their organization - SalesForce Marketing Cloud) or in contact with a retention marketing folk. I’d like to have a small chat around understanding this exercise. Let me know. Thanks 🤘🏻

Any lady lifters out there dating someone who doesn't lift? I love my boyfriend dearly. I also look like I could take him down in a fight. He's a distance runner so he's pretty lean.

Me 2 months ago: Finally got Hamilton tickets this year! What could go wrong?

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Pick up day tomorrow ; Doctor suggests performing an additional elective procedure such as IVM, ZyMot, and Gold-media.Any fishes have any feedback on these procedures? What was your experience if any of you had done.
Appreciate the help.

Hi,

I have my HR round pending with Schneider Electric. I am a Salesforce Developer. I already have offer letter of 20 LPA. How much should I ask? YOE - 6.7 years . Thanks.

Looking for change
Worked for both product and service based companies.
Experience: 8.5
Skills: Test Automation ( no deep knowledge into manual testing)

Selenium, Appium, Rest Assured, Java, Cypress, Jmeter, Git, Maven, Jenkins , Jira ,
Platforms: Guidewire ( last used in 2020 )
ServiceNow ( last used in 2020 )

Notice period: 30 days

Hi ,
I have 4 years of experience in Sales and Uses tax from big4. I want to switch to new company. How much CTC i can expect ?

Small life sciences company. Seeking reccos for internal IP Docketing Service/Platform. Anyone have any reccos.

What is the average % bonus of base in big AM firms? Have an offer and debating between that and another finance route that I know pays a large bonus if performing well

What is too short (dress/skirt) in the work place?

I went to the lease this last weekend. Not one drop of alcohol was had. That was the closest I’ve come to caving. 4 wheelers, killing dinner with big guns, doing manly things in God’s country. Beer is an absolute necessity during these events. Anyhow, I didn’t drink. Proud of myself. Monumental moment for me.

Partners, when you identified a minor error from a deliverable that was reviewed by SA and manager. Do you mostly get upset/disappointed at the manager, SA or the associate?

The right question to ask on Super Tuesday: How to move to Canada?

Happy Valentine's Day *to those of you that celebrate* 💐❤️❤️

Joining in D-USI (RFA) as SSA. How is wlb in RFA

How does everyone manage SAD during the winters. Feeling so down and not sure what are the best ways to cope.

Ordered a shroom grow kit and two kinds of spores. I've never taken them and always wanted to. Let's see if they do anything to rewire the brain like some people say!

Does anyone have any advice on how to convince yourself life is worth it when you think it’s not. I’m a 28 year guy, just got laid off from my job, have aspergers, have no friends, can’t find a gf, why do I even try anymore at anything

In an industry full of smart and driven people, I find it helpful to remind myself that I need to run my own race.

Anyone watch the clock tick away and have this endless dread of the work day starting like me. When I wake up on weekdays I dread looking at the clock. During the day I mentally start counting down how much time is left on a 30 min break, on Sundays it’s a whole different story.

Dad got laid off. Drinking got worse. Attempted assault on sis and mom. Had to put up in hotel. No clue on next steps (legal and personal). Project is complete shit show and SM is not getting it. Idk man...

I see a lot of people who have crippling anxiety here work out to feel better. My crippling anxiety kind of paralysis my legs (or at least feels like it to the point that I can’t even walk). Does anyone have similar symptoms and solution for it?
I am in therapy right now but just wanted to hear from someone who is also going through it

My mood has been fluctuating so much lately. Some days (yesterday) I wake up feeling invincible and some days (today) want to hide myself the rest of the world and feel like nothing will ever get better. I’m trying to push myself to make plans with other ppl and am really self-conscious about it cuz I don’t want ppl to see me in low spirit.. any ideas on how to fix that?

How does someone like Elon Musk can go on to do so much while I can barely get out of my bed, keep my job and have the will to live?

The voice of an outlook email notification gives me anxiety. Does anyone else feel this way or know how i can calm myself? This is a new feeling

I probably always have had low lying depression (per my therapist) but I think my break up finally broke me. After two months, I'm not any better. So I'm hopping on medication for the first time. Day 5 of using Zoloft. How long before I should consider it is or isn't working?

I just started taking mirtazapine again b/c depression has completely taken over my life.

Not looking forward to the weight gain 😕

Anyone gain weight from Paxil?

I manage 2 physician practices and one is extremely toxic. To the point the dr sides with staff even when I am trying to make corrective actions when patient care is in jeopardy. My leadership is aware and knows I am keeping my distance from them. Just doing the necessary work to keep them producing. How do you handle this? It’s been extremely stressful and harmful to my ptsd anxiety and depression.

For those of you on medication, how do you manage delayed flights causing you to miss appointments? Often, cancellation policies are strict, expensive, and require several days notice.

Abused and isolated as a kid. I have terrible memory. Like I don’t really remember the past few months except in broad strokes and memories of my childhood are more non existent than existent. I’m working through this with my therapist. Does anyone have any experience with emotional and memory repression? Curious on your advice

I’ve had a bad case of work anxiety ever since I started a new job ~7 months ago. The adjustment was ROUGH. I was making mistake after mistake. I powered through and somehow got glowing reviews at year end, with people saying I’ve moved past that point.

I’m convinced I’ve only tricked people and sooner or later they’re gonna catch on. I have extremely bad Sunday scaries, I’m always fighting down my anxiety whenever a new ask comes through. I don’t know what to do.

Why does getting let go feel like dying? I was so angry earlier at having gotten the news about being let go after 2 years and now it feels like I’m being crushed from the inside out.

Any recommendation for a therapist around Jersey City/ NYC area? I have called 15 people so far and none of them are taking new clients. This isn't helping my anxiety.

I try to mentally play it off like I don’t care or only go where you’re wanted, but it sometimes stings when a group of friends hang out and don’t invite you. Makes you wonder why or what I do?