Is anyone else exhausted with their consulting staff thinking they’re gods? Being treated with disrespect constantly by them is so draining. How do you manage your responses to them that’s not a 30 second turnaround?

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I’d rather be internal HR than consulting. You’ve got it better than you think. Signed - used to be internal 😅

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Oh the hours are horrible. 😅

Show them the door!

Inhale, exhale, let it all flow past you. Repeat. Honestly, I find that setting clear boundaries helps.

It's frustrating for sure. I think professional services in general is like this though...I work at a law firm and some of the emails I get is just like...WOW

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