How do you know when is the right time to call it quits? When so many disappointments accumulate but still actively in couples therapy, how do you determine there is no hope to recover the relationship to avoid wasting time?

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If everything your significant other says / does causes cringe, fear of what can happen next, makes you feel disgusted, please quit. No human deserves a lifetime of pain and sadness.

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As far as I am concerned, prefer being a giver. At any point one feels that separation is all that's wanted, give it.

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 – When Nietzsche Wept

There's the romance and the movie adaptation.

I'm in the same situation. Searching to see if there is enough love and connection to carry us through.

You'll know.

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