How long have you served? If you left, would you do it all over again, and if so why or why not?

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I left after 10 years in service, but it really took a toll on me and my family. So I can't say I'd do it again, but I am thankful for the people I met. I had a painfully difficult time readjusting to civilian life, but I couldn't stay in anymore either.

I've served for 25 years and have loved pretty much every minute of it.

10 years ….left because wanted to return Oconus…and yes

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