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Male. I was up front and sharing the news early- because I would take off to join for appointments, etc.

I ended up taking 13 of 16 weeks just based off of delivery gaps...but still was more time off than I’ve ever had in my life.

This was about 2 years back.

20 weeks, give or take.

For the most part, you have to take all the leave at once. There is a little tweaking you can do but basically it goes:
Medical STD
Medical LTD
Firm-sponsored leave
PTO

For both mine, I was out 12 weeks then used PTO to only be half time for another 8 weeks.

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