How to deal with office dynamics ??
im working in corporate field since 2 yrs , im a silent person who dont involve in favouritism, groupism, rumours , but it has reach an extent that im not able to tolerate anymore , effecting my mental health day to day activities ..officers , managers, team everyone involved...i used to avoid maximum but they calling me as a mental person .spreading personal life rumours about me .how to get over

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