I had recently joined a big software security company located in Bangalore (I'm working remotely from NCR till October). There is too much work, timing is normally more than 12 hrs, everyone including manager remain online till atleast 11pm. Sometime he pings too.
I'm overwhelmed by such load of work. I became father last month only so life balance seems tripping. I'm supposed to relocate to Bangalore in Oct, what should I do? Need help sharks.

TC 33 LPA, 8.5 yrs

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From my experience as a new father, i can say your upcoming 1.5 year will be really tough. Physically , mentally and emotionally. And this will increase. You will not have enough sleep and your priority will change, thus you will not be able to focus on work. I assume you must now already have experience of this.Moving to a new city will be challenging.

My recommendation will be to keep the baby with the family, mother grandmother grandfather. Since you are getting 33 lpa , thus expectations from you are also based on your package. You have to work 12-14 hr now as new normal. Or take few break, use all your planned leave.

And congratulations 🎉🥳 for been a father. It will be an unforgettable experience.

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Most of them.
Anyway it's not about the task you get.. it's how well you handle it. Some work lazy, some work hard, some work smart.
You need to define how much work you can do in certain hours. Need the hours and how you manage your job.

Fyi.. higher the salary, higher the expectation.

Chod de bro..mil jayegi dusri

Noone is Noida offering this salary range for this experience...will be a hard search

Leave tcs bro

I would be jobless rather being employee of TCS, HCL, Wipro etc.
I can rethink about TCS if they pay me 40+ package after 1 year.

33 for 8.5 is not less. Any company paying that kind of salary will expect . Even product conpanies won't be easy

Pressure will be there.. especially when you expecting 30 and above.

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