I had this best friend, the kind of friend that we would sent each other memes all day and snaps. We have the same humor.

On my birthday last year no one was in the city so he and I got takeout at his apartment, watched a movie, and then he went down on my twice... yes I know lol

Then we started hanging out at my place, watching movies and hooking up. He wasn’t seeing anyone else but he completely ghosted me after the last time we hung out... What did I do? I miss him 🥺

Girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me right before we were supposed to leave the state and move in together. We broke up about 4 months ago. I couldn’t demonize her, so I’m still struggling with processing it and idk what to do. I’ve been looking into therapy, but I can only do online which leaves me hesitant. Any advice would be appreciated.

Half the reason I work out is to make my ex jealous

How can I approach my boyfriend who has an alcohol problem to help him get healthier ?

So uhhh anyone need a house sitter the week before memorials day weekend? Wanted to visit the city and go to the office a few days but my friend who I usually crash with is out of town

My SO adds very little to our relationship. She has a dead end job. I cook. I work. I oversee finances. I plan trips. She doesn’t have a voice in the relationship. I’ve asked her to give her perspective but she always defaults to mine bc she thinks I’m smarter/worldly. She feels intimated by me and my social circle. Lately, I’ve found myself thinking for her. Anticipating her wants and needs and then adjusting my behavior to meet them. Which she appreciates but it’s frustrating 29M 27F

Hi! Have any here gone the natural cycle IVF route? What was your experience like? Did you have success in growing your family this way? Would you recommend it to others?

I love living in Miami, but have found it incredibly difficult to make friends. I had a thriving social life/ friend group in Chicago. Anyone else finding it hard to build friendships here?

How to deal with the cuffing season? How to deal with the days post family gathering while being alone?

28,F divorced no child and no life , my marriage is nothing but a whole cheat drama, now parents are asking to marry anyone who can 'accept ' me but I never did anything wrong other than being innocent and naive and good to bad people, really wanted to live my life, somebody hold my hand when in distress and i ended up somebody who just need my money and body nothing else, just feel like committing suicide, never been a loser at any point of life , Life is bloody damn unfair

Any ideas on how to keep kids social distanced while walking in line? Teaching personal space in line is difficult in normal years, but I'm not sure how I'll teach them to stay 6ft. apart as they walk or wait in line...

People who have cheated in their previous relationships, how did you come to realize the reason behind your behavior? A close friend confided in me that she has cheated in all her previous relationships and struggles to understand the reasoning behind it. She feels a lot of shame and is trying to understand why she does what she does.I have suggested therapy but she is not ready yet. How did you folks arrive at the root cause behind your behavior? Advice? Book suggestions that I can pass along?

So… 3.5 year relationship came crashing in Jan due to covid depression, work burn out, lockdown etc. We have stayed in contact and recently he has come around to apologizing and considering getting back together. However he also revealed he started seeing someone casually 4 weeks ago and technically is cheating on her by meeting me for coffee and to discuss this. I’m upset that he’s dating others but shouldn’t be right? I mean, I did the same. Still hurts though. And I told him to sort that out

I made a mistake. I talked with the ex this morning. He said he misses me. And that while he walk talking to the other woman, he wished he was talking to me instead. And when he saw that I didn’t respond to his texts, he drank a shit ton. And then called this morning.

He’s not willing to commit to the other women because he’s not over me.

I need to block him.

How do I know if I am ready for a divorce?

I am wanting to start the adoption process. I reached out to pathways to parenthood for information first from my personal email. I got a response within 30 min asking me to email them back from my work email. I did so and it has now been 3 days with no response. Is there any other way of contacting them?

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

Anyone be in a relationship where the other has an alcohol problem? Every night out drinking leads to emotional breakdowns and fights. Been going on for 6 months now. Should I break up?

Hello kindergarten teachers I have a question for those in the New York area. I have a son going into kindergarten in a few days. My question is what knowledge is he expected to walk in knowing?

Moving to Philly Nov 1, just signed a lease in Queen Village. Coming from LA where I was part of a volleyball group and had a lot of options at the beach. Suggestions on making friends and being active (while still being respectful of covid rules & health of all)? 36 F

Has anyone faced a situation like me that HR not responding for call or email and not giving right information when asked and no clear salary discussion from Wipro.
I see a lot of discrepancies with letter of intent from Wipro..
Like joining location is different, salary was given too less than expected Salary...
I've not accepted or rejected the letter of intent but I've emailed the HR asking to make changes in the letter to resend... Is everyone facing the same situation ??

Looking for creative ways to generate demand for demos that don’t require big ad spend - any advice or tactics you’ve done to great success? (SaaS product in niche industry)

I am looking for a 2bhk (family) in Viman Nagar or Kharadi (Modular kitchen is must) without brokerage. Any leads would be super helpful.

Hi all,

Need a 4bhk flat for rent nearby kharadi, keshav nagar. Let me know if there are any leads.

TIA

Hey guys
I got a 3BHK in Ganga Orchard, Koregaon Park(5.6 km from WTC).
I’m searching for 2 chill male flatmates.
Rent -32K
Deposit-90K
Dm if interested

Hello everyone,
I am looking for a roommate(female) in Gulmohar orchid apartment kharadi, Pune. Fully furnished
Rent would be 7.5k per month. If anyone is interested pls contact me.

ARK blasting off. Where’s our buddy Lane for a quick analysis?

I just had to send my husband away in an ambulance. I’m not allowed to go with him or even go to the hospital. I don’t know what to do. I can’t even be there for my husband.

I have got an offer from Eli Lilly Banglore as Senior Associate Consultant - CSPI. It is for Clinical Trial Analytics team. Can anyone pleas tell me about the culture of the team and what kind of projects do they have?@

Can I get EI while I wait to start my new job?

Hi i got a mail from IFS team about my adverse response in the FY22 ACC regarding EBP's. I am not able to understand this. Please help me understanding this mail.

Oh boy, they just paged “Mary and Joseph” in LGA C....

What is the salary range for b2 in Wipro?

Anyone working in Pune?@Stefanini

I heard there were recent comp changes at amazon.

What's would a L6.5 Finance Manager comp package look like now? I'm expecting an offer soon and wanted to make sure I'm equipped with the right info to negotiate.

My org will be pausing the Employer match to 401k for a few months. What's the best strategy to optimize my investment at this time?
Ride along/increase or decrease my percentage?

Hello Guys,
Need small advice,
I had my LWD on 27th june ,before a week of that i had HSbC last round in which I clearly told I wanted to join by 4th july as my next joining is due at that time.
HR agreed and told will fast track your bgv .
Now the problem is they released offer for 11thJuly saying will preponed in case bgv finished early.
Today I again got a mail for 18th july extension.

Am quite worried here now, as I already said no to other companies !should I try looking again.

Any suggestions for good writing classes in the city? Either fiction or non fiction. Not poetry

Saw someone asking about high-rise apartments in Mott Haven earlier. Just moved into a new apartment building here and honestly it’s not as bad as I thought. New buildings are safe and pretty spacious (relatively speaking). Downside is not really much to do around this area and food delivery is not great. Hope this is helpful for any one who is looking at this area.

Building im applying to has a $1,000 move in deposit. Are these usually refunded? The agent is checking with management but they are being super slow to answer. I want to move quick on this so I don’t lose the apartment

Hey, where do you guys go for fun after work or the weekends? I'm trying to socialize as a young professional but also have a good time 😅 Taking all suggestions.

What are your plans this weekend? 9/10 - 9/11 edition

Is Meetup legit and a good way to meet people? Looking to find new things to do with new people

What soccer venues in NYC (preferably Manhattan) organize private games? Also, would love to hear if anyone organized something similar for their company to play in soccer pick-up leagues, etc

I graduated law school in 2016 and work at a small-medium size firm. What should my salary be compared to other firms? (In the process of applying to other firms and I think I currently make on the lower end)

6:55am flight tomorrow at LGA plan to drop off my rental around 5, never done the shuttle before at LGA, is that enough time? Not sure what construction is going on

a question for my fellow asian women - moving there in a few months and wondering how safe you all feel? i know it’s been a scary time with increased hate crimes. open to hearing any insights, tips, experiences. stay safe ❤️

Thoughts on living in Bushwick or Ridgewood, is it worth the cheaper rent/more space?

I need recommendations for a nice restaurant in MH that for a large party 20 for a bday dinner. Nice ambiance, good food, good service for a milestone birthday.

Attorney 🐠 - my female SO is moving over to big law in the coming weeks. Need ideas on gifts. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance!!

Anyone in dc? Let’s get fucked up

Hi fellow healthcare 🐠! Vynamic is currently hiring experienced consultants in the NYC market. If you’re looking to make a move, we have great pay and benefits, outstanding work/life balance and solid leadership. Life science/launch experience is a plus, but we’re hiring for experience in all sectors. If interested, DM me and I can answer any questions you have.

I feel lonely in NYC. Working long hours without life. How to make new friends in NYC?

I’ve been a family caregiver for four years, and now look to return to the workforce. I realize that this will be a bit difficult, especially during these economic conditions, plus other factors, such as being an older employee, etc. I updated my account with a few job sites, adding on the fact that I took time off to care for a family member. I would appreciate some advice, anything that would be helpful.

Visiting nyc over nye with family - is there any way to do a low key dinner at a restaurant or is everything ticketed

Team dinner reccs? 5 ppl, $125 budget p’