So… 3.5 year relationship came crashing in Jan due to covid depression, work burn out, lockdown etc. We have stayed in contact and recently he has come around to apologizing and considering getting back together. However he also revealed he started seeing someone casually 4 weeks ago and technically is cheating on her by meeting me for coffee and to discuss this. I’m upset that he’s dating others but shouldn’t be right? I mean, I did the same. Still hurts though. And I told him to sort that out

Met this guy through friends a few years back. He made me feel really special, told me he was going through a bad patch with his gf at that point. Things happened between us in a couple of months and

Any single parents in here? If so, and you want support and understanding from other single parents please join the new “single-parents” bowl. Especially as busy season is here.

Is anyone's agency putting into place travel or work from home policies in response to the coronavirus? I have to admit, I'm terrified. I have an underlying condition that would make pneumonia deadly.

Any Covid care tips?? This is beating my ass currently 😭😭😭

My manager has always been one to micromanage. For the past two years I've been experiencing bad anxiety attacks brought on by the COVID pandemic, however with the recent developments in Ukraine and Russia, my anxiety has been through the roof. Logistics is hard enough, but now it's even worse, because not only am I struggling with my manager and the shortages/delays of merch, but now I'm also dealing with my mental health. For anyone who travels a lot for work, what advice would you have?

Hey everyone! First post 👏🏾👏🏾 ...I’m working on a project with a small healthcare company. Can anyone give examples of ways to market and be engaging in healthcare during Covid since there’s limited to no in person interaction? How have you been able to get in front of decision makers?

Found out late last night I was around someone who tested positive for COVID. Im outside the contact tracing window (continued).

American society would be in a better place if all of the “woke” young Americans of European descent used the same energy to talk with their loved ones who are bigoted, racist, and/or sexist. That’s the hard work that means more than taking selfies while protesting and posting on social media for dopamine hits.

Found a really nice house in a good school district but with 0% Asian population (let alone desis). Wanted to get people’s perspective on sending kid to such a school. Kid is 3 year old.

My ex is always saying how good he would be in sports, singing,dancing like you name it he got it 🤦‍♂️Yet he’ve been unemployed for years unemployed 😳. Am I wrong to feel some type of way?

Does anyone else ever feel like their parents lean too heavily on them for financial support? Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love them and I’m so thankful. It just seems like the older they get, the less shy they are about asking for things and I’m hitting a point where I’m going to have to start saying no.

Hot take: There are no soulmates.

There are people who you are more compatible with than others. Every relationship requires a ton of work.

Being aligned on how you want to live your life and raise your kids is what matters most.

Is it ok to look for one night stands while on road and not feel guilty.. does it mean I dont love my girlfriend?

I’m Elizabeth and I’m in Las Vegas. I’ve been teaching ECSE for 14 years and it’s my 18th year teaching (i taught resource for 4 years). I love my littles! Who has taught the toddler crowd?

Confused if parents want schools to reopen or not? I read so many posts here about how difficult it is to work full time and manage kids’ at-home schooling (I can’t even imagine!) so would assume that means parents want to reopen, but at the same time keep seeing a ton of backlash from parents in states who are pushing to reopen due to safety reasons. What’s the general consensus?

How can I make friends in Chicago?

Are DeepRanvir in an open marriage?

I accidentally overshared information about having anxiety and trouble focusing with someone who is kind of important at the company and now I regret it. She never responded and probably forgot about it but my husband told me that I shouldn’t have done that and I shouldn’t share things like that with people at work unless you are really close with them and now I’m freaking out and crying because I’m scared she will remember that and tell my boss or other higher up people.

Anyone feel as if it’s hard to stay with a company when you’re the only one of color? (&young) I’ve work for 3 companies in past 5 years and have yet to make meaningful colleague relationships. I just do not relate to the conversation and just find it hard to picture myself being a long-term employee. I’ve had better relationships when working at wal-mart when I was in college. I feel it takes away some of the joy of having to go to work.

Hello All ,
I am actively looking for new job opportunity and can join immediately for Application Support Role
Overall 7 years of experience .
Good understanding on ITIL and SDLC

Technical skills - Unix & SQL
Domain Knowledge- BFSI and IT Software support , Maintenance and Enhancement

Tools - Service now , Jira, Conflence, APM, Dyanatrace, MQ, SQL Developer , Autosys, Control- M , Winscp

Functional Skills - Incident Management, change management, release management, IT Asset manageme

LTC has made me switch from Macy’s to Burlington!

Just curious if all the cardiac sonographers starting out in the profession, what was your starting wage? After working so many year how much did your income increase? How much was your pay for being on call?

Currently I am one year out of school starting at around $26/HR with my on call pay being $2.75 an hour (we doing it weekly at my hospital) and we average around 100 hour of on call so it’s close to $300 per on call week.

Does anyone know of any social justice work or public service internships in north jersey or NYC for college students? Thanks!!

What frustrates you about daily life? (Apart from the people in it)

Do you plan to retire outside the US? If so, how does it impact your retirement age?

My wife has EU citizenship and I also have a citizenship from a developing nation (cont)

Thoughts on Indexed Universal Life Insurance as an investment vehicle? I hear the pros and cons from the sellers of this, whom I understand gain heavy commissions. But wanted to get thoughts from investors and if this isn't a good vehicle, what alternative investment vehicles do you suggest (outside of stocks, Roth, 401k, and real estate)? Looking to diversify my portfolio.

I'm 43, married, income 600k combined, and we have 2 properties worth 3m and investment accounts worth ~2-3m.

Thanks!

Is this a strong offer or should I negotiate for more at AD level?
Company: Moderna; Level: Associate Director; Base: $200K; New hire equity grant: $95K (50% vests the 1st year and then 25% each quarter after); Bonus: 20%; Annual equity award: $70K

I’ll have to pull an all-nighter tonight, but it’s mainly because I dropped everything at 5PM to go shopping at the mall. Wondering if this is happening to anyone else

Some have expressed interest in starting a meeting for this bowl, so I made a meeting ID on zoom. Before I schedule anything I wanted to pitch it to the group for thoughts on time and day and process

I also wanted to see if we could maybe use the group to create the meeting format. We have plenty of great writers in here, maybe some would like to take a stab at the script?

At the end of the day I want to help facilitate not dictate, so would y’all’s thoughts!!

Hi guys,

Just curious about the work experience and job security and work life balance, year on year hike in Tata Elxsi.

Looking for first hand experience from people.

Thanks

Anyone have an idea of a salary range for a Senior Executive Recruiter role for a consulting/recruiting start up?

I've been working at this company for a few years now, and I've always felt like I'm being paid what I'm worth. But now I know that's not true—there are other people with less experience than me who are making more. Tips for asking for a raise?

What’s your Excel horror story (worst crash, worst mistake, worst there-was-a-way-to-do-this-quicker moment)? Extra points for self-shaming

Staff1 here: what are some key accounting concepts & technical skills to apply/know

Anyone have advice for applying for internships at a law firm as an undergraduate student? If anyone has any internship positions available that would be amazing.

What would you say is the average time to go from Jr. Copywriter to Copywriter?

I’ve been a Jr for just over 2 years, plus a 9 month internship where I was very involved in the role. So just about 3 years experience at this agency. If I don’t get the title bump at my upcoming review, should I be worried?

How do you interpret a guy watching all of your insta stories basically within 30 mins of posting them, and ‘liking’ them frequently. For example, I was at a wedding last weekend and posting photos til like 5 am- he watched every single one almost instantly

I'm single and well paid. I'm fit and good looking. I'm fun to hang out with. I'm a good listener. That's it. I'm happy being single. I'm not looking to date anyone or looking for a long term relationship. I have amazing friends, amazing family and I go on casual dates once in a while. Extremely happy with my life and don't want to change anything about it.

Every time there’s a little conflict I can’t handle it. How do I overcome this and get better at addressing it?

At what point do you think you should move in with your significant other or at least talk about it?

I want to do an MBA in the next 2 years. I’m currently up for Senior consultant promotion but I don’t think I can make good money in consulting till I become Partner. My boyfriend isn’t supportive of this decision. He believes it will alter our plans (marriage, children etc). He also thinks immigration will be a big hassle since I’ve already used my 3 years of OPT. What should I do?

My bf took a guys trip to Caribbean to celebrate a good friend of 20+ year’s milestone bday. The friend’s bday is the day before mine. Normally bf and I trip for my bday over the holiday weekend. Bf will be back for my actual bday, and we’re taking a domestic trip next weekend. That said, I still feel a little miffed that we’re not spending this weekend together like normal. Are my feelings unreasonable?

For the people in relationships/marriage in which the woman is making significantly more than the man, how have you fared so far? Would like to know your thoughts

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Can someone please explain why some people bring up past emotional hurts during arguments even if you’ve apologized for them and they haven’t happened again? But they still feel the need to weaponize this moment and throw it in your face. And before anyone asks, no it’s not infidelity… just looking for advice/insight here

Reached out to an ex after not being in contact for 4 years. Said “Hi, I hope all is well.” No response. Intention was not to get back together (we’re both married now), more to mend fences since we were good friends once upon a time. Was reaching out a mistake?

Reunited with an ex and things moved very fast with the two of us spending a lot of time and nights together but we waited to consummate the “relationship”. Recently, he shared that he wasn’t in a position to be in a relationship right now and felt like he didn’t have enough to offer me but he cared deeply for me and was very attracted to me. Admittedly, he isn’t financially well-off and is heading back to school to finish his degree (we’re in our 30s) but it still hurts a lot.

How to still feel confident when siblings or cousins significant others are richer and make more money then you? Or what if they are better looking then your significant other?

Looking for advice on personal space in a relationship. Been in thus relationship for 6 months. I date here and there but have not been in a serious relationship in a long time. Been working late M-F since COVID started. I usually call my gf after work or before I go to sleep and we talk for an hr or so each night. And on Fridays I go to her place right after work and stay the weekend. I’m finding a lack of my own time because it’s either work or her throughout the week and weekends...

Anyone proposed to your SO that you dated for under a year? How did that play out in the long run?

How to constructively talk about the long term future with SO? We (both 26) have been together 6 years with the last 3 as LDR. We are supposed to be moving in together over the summer, but given she is moving across state lines I don’t think this should be a light decision. It’s reaching the point that if we don’t move in I don’t think we should continue dating and I also don’t want her to move in without talking in detail about core relationship topics (marriage, finances, etc).

How do you determine what issues in your relationship deserve working on and staying despite feeling disrespected/frustrated versus ending it? Definitely have a tendency to not give second chances out of fear my kindness is being taken advantage of, but I notice many people work through it and don’t take it so personal.

What are your thoughts on the everlasting friends debate - cheating or were they on a break?