I HATE the partners on my team. They only care about themselves, lack compassion, kindness, and understanding. They throw each other under the bus (and obvi associates too). They can’t keep associates (have lost 10+ in a few years) and the firm does NOTHING about it bc one of them is a rainmaker. They intentionally make attacks personal and explicitly demand late nights/weekend work (i already do).Nothing pleases them. My mental health is suffering. 😭 need encouragement! (I am trying to leave).

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Welcome to biglaw.

In all seriousness, look for another role. I’ve been there, too.

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Exactly. I’m experiencing this right now at my regional firm.

How many years have you been there and how much sway do you think you have with them? I’m asking because perhaps you may be able to pull one or two partners aside to have a serious conversation. High turnover is not a great look for a firm.

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Find a good therapist, quiet quit as much as you can, take medical leave if you qualify, and find a new job.

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this.

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Start looking. I dont play about jerky partners. I am out.

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This sounds exactly like my former firm. Any chance you’re in Philly? 😂 Just know that not every firm is like this. Get out before it destroys your mental and physical health and career.

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Try to remember this is a “them” problem, not a you problem. And if it’s hard to integrate that into your brain, don’t be shy about getting professional support from a therapist. I’ve been there too and I hope you find something soon so you can jump off that sinking ship!!

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