I have a recurring thought that really brings me down and I can’t seem to get past it.
Some days I feel I am pretty good at what I do (not a leadership role) but then I see leaders in my own organization that are great at what they do and I don’t believe that I could ever get to their level of competence. Then I think of all the people my age who are appear to be doing those things and wonder we what’s wrong with me.
Have any of you felt this and how have you gotten past it?

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This makes me think about a saying along the lines of not comparing your chapter 1 to someone else’s chapter 8. I have also felt this way, too. The best advice I can give is to just have a thirst for knowledge, learning, and a commitment to being better today than you were yesterday.

A year from now, you will look back and be amazed at how far you’ve come.

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Definitely have felt like this too! Don’t feel like it takes away from your value! We can’t help but look at others and compare ourselves. However, take a look at yourself too and have you improved in the last year or two. If so, then you are moving in the right direction!

Growth comes different to everyone and people always look like they have it together from the outside but we all suffer from insecurities at times.

Just keep doing you!!!

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Everyday 😂

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