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Why would you ask?! 🤦♀️
I hinted on asking once, and Bf told me don’t ask questions you don’t want answers to ... so I didn’t ask cause I totally would have felt the same if he gave me a high number (which I expect ...)
One other comment / piece of advice from a former slut - obviously based on my husband and my numbers (^ 50/100) we’re both very sexual people, which is one important factor to long-term compatibility. While I definitely don’t think numbers matter, at all, sexual compatibility does matter. If you like sex or experimentation less than your partner or vice versa, I could see that being a long-term problem. High numbers don’t necessarily equal highly sexual people, but they can be correlated. I’d focus on assessing your sexual compatibility, not your number discrepancies
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Be great full for his experience, my husband had many partners before we got together, he was always safe and I’m glad for his experience, he is the only partner to bring on the O...
I’m really surprised by all the negative reactions here. We are all, I assume, educated and worldly people, why is it surprising that people enjoy their sexuality? Why is it ‘gross’? Let people live, as long as they’re not harming anyone.
His body count*
Why did you ask? And why did you find it important to know?
You wanna know, but don't wanna know 😉
Athe a dumb question but he knows body count refers to different people, and not how many times he’s had sex? That, or he’s really good at hookup culture
Oh how I miss the college days!
What is body count?
Now you got to know that was none of your business. As long as you take him to the clinic and he tests negative for everything it shouldn’t matter. It ain’t your right to judge him, only God to do that.
I think I'm at 11? I'm 26 and I haven't actually had a 1 night stand before.
I always thought that wasn't that many (since no 1 night stands), but then I was talking to my BF of 3.5 years recently, and his count was only 4. Kinda shocked me, I thought everyone had done it with more people than me lol.
Not sure why you asked if you didn’t want to know? Why get weird about it? So he has some life experience that you don’t? As long as he isn’t still racking them up, why do you care?
OP my boyfriend’s count is in the 90s at 42. I’m 33 and my number is ~20. Most of his count actually occurred when he was single in his 30s. We live in LA and it doesn’t seem that uncommon. His little brother’s number is even higher. We’ve been dating around a year and at first it bothered me but over time he has shown me how loving and caring he is and it doesn’t really bother me anymore.