If i create a bowl designed to meet, date people would that interest anyone 😭😭

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

My confession is that as a young guy, I want us to go back to the office so I can meet driven, career minded, attractive women. So tired of being catfished and all the other BS on dating apps.

Edit: to clarify, I don't mean hitting on women at work. I would just like to meet quality women, and I don't go partying or to bars. It's very hard as someone in their 20s coming out of a pandemic to meet people.

So I dated a girl last year then things didn’t work out but we remained friends and kept in touch throughout the year (also meet up for coffee, beach day, etc) but nothing ever happened after we called it off. Now she moved to the city where I live and her parents came visiting her. She wanted them to meet me. She was really happy and she wanted to go out for lunch all together again. (Continue below)

Asker outers- make reservations. I’m tired of going to dinner or drinks and finding out my date’s plan is winging it and the place doesn’t have space. Make a reservation!! It takes one min!!

I’m 29 and only now realized I shouldn’t go on dates if I’m still bitter about an ex

Married to a man who raised kids as a single dad and did lots of good things. He’s now retired and his hostility is killing me. We had nice ($$$$$) dinner last night and thought maybe we will finally connect. Well on his way to restroom a group was having pic taken in lobby and blocked him. Ruined the night. Angry grouchy jerk. And it’s always directed at me. It’s daily. Very sad and lonely. I bring it up and he belittles me. Traveling limited my exposure and was ok. Now I can’t handle

This Indian matchmaking show is interesting...love how the first girl is like “my partner needs to fit in my life” 😳🙄😳🙄🤭

31 M, 6'3 looking for a serious relationship and a potential soulmate.

Any 35+ male 🐠 want to chat and see where things go? 33F in a smaller East Coast US city but very willing to travel to meet in person if we actually hit it off.

Any single f wants to connect?

Is there such a thing as over texting the person you like?

I’m not a very big guy but this one girl I was with keeps saying ouch. She’s not a tiny girl. I asked if it was ok and she said it’s good pain. Thoughts?

I’m 27 years old, fit, cute, very well educated. Looking for a serious relationship!

These dating apps. ARGH! Someone “likes” you (takes the time to do that) then never messages you back. I don’t understand.

I was on a tour but where I asked a couple of older women sitting behind me to speak softly as it was 6:30 am in the morning. After that they kept saying loudly that i’m smelling and that i need to use deo and that i should keep my arm down. I confronted them later and they said respect your elders?? I want to ruin their vacation. What else can I do?

Hi all, when do y’all think is a good time to have the “what are we”/“are we exclusive” talk? After how many dates?

How's the LGBT dating scene at HBS? Are most people single or partnered

Thoughts on convincing gf to stay? 27M dating 28F for ~1.5 years. We knew each other in HS and reconnected during the pandemic. Everything was so connected, compatible and hot, and we planned a life together. We thought we met the loves of our lives. We moved to NYC in January. Lost intimacy and connection. She’s unwilling to work on things. Such a genuinely talented and beautiful woman, but has trust issues and depression from being overworked. Thoughts on convincing vs surrendering / leaving?

Stories of a Jax night out?

I'll go first: on a last night out for a navy guy I'd dated for like 6mo he dragged us to king street where i never enjoy, at the bar w the toss the ring game a couple was fucking in the bathroom and the guy in front of me in line was mad about it taking so long so he started banging on the door trying to break it down and started to fight them when they came out. So we escaped to kickbacks where a customer threw a drink at the waitress who subsequently pulled a 🔪

Now that’s what I wanted - good bowl. Come on real estate folks!

Anyone have experience with Keeps? Does it work? (M 30’s here)

Has anyone gotten the vaccine at United center? Are they asking for any proof of eligibility?

For dinner activities or both?

Hi fishes!! My joining at EY GDS is in 1 month and I have received an email related to background verification from first advantage.
* Is that the correct website where we need to provide all details for background verification? * * Also for permanent address should we give current address or permanent home address ? If they come for residence verification what do they ask or check?

Looking to spurge all of my Marriott points for honeymoon. Which international property would everyone recommend?

Been seeing a therapist for a while now and feeling worse than ever. Been having suicidal thoughts. Not sure what to do.

IEP, 504, and those without internet will return in-person next week while rest of students remain remote. Regular Ed teachers may have students (mild Learning Disabled kiddos) in their room while teaching. They are saying it’s a liability issue if they have one student in the room with them, even though teaching other via Zoom. Thoughts? Anyone else experiencing this?

Hi fishes,
Anyone have hybris knowledge based on java springboot. Please let me know.

How many days it usually takes for Full and final settlement in Capgemini? It's been 11 days after lwd but didn't receive any communication yet even after dropping mail to f&f team. Could someone help here pls.?

New joiner. What should I get with my $250 wfh stipend? I already have standing desk, dual monitor, portable monitor, and good headset, not too sure what else I need, but it’s free money. Thanks.

Oh, that feeling... I just noticed I have no calls today!!

The one call I had was canceled. 🎉🎉 party!

CREATIVE DIRECTOR/ART DIRECTOR NEEDED in nashville. if the idea of hot chicken and great work sounds like something you’d like, hit me up.

I am looking for associate consultant profile in HCL. Can any one refer me to similar profiles in HCL.

Hi fishes,

How is tredence for Data Scientist role in terms of wlb ,learning and hikes in comparison to Tiger and overall? Do they provide onsite opportunities?

Hi I am QA with 2 YOE . looking for a permanent WFH job. I have the skill of manual testing, Application testing (Android and iOS), website testing, Jmeter and Cypress Beginner,SQL and Postman

When is it confirmed that an MD is going to the partner panel in FY23? I have been promised that I will go to the panel but when will be it officially confirmed? I am in Strategy if it matters.

Kevin McCarthy should strip Marjorie Taylor Greene of her committee assignments like he did with Steve King. Nancy Pelosi should do it with Ilhan Omar too. No place for anti-Semitic bs in Congress

Any Visual Designer's looking for a new job opportunity?
Contract or Contract to hire
Remote

Need to be a able to work in the USA

If there’s anything NYC teaches you most, it’s to be more independent than you already are.

Is there anything inherently sketchy about an apartment with a mandatory lease term of over a year (eg 15 or 18 months)? I assume they just want to lock us down for longer, but committing to a place for that long is a little daunting

Any Hr people out there..my wife is going through a harassment case against her boss. He is retaliating against her and other staff. On going for years. Most recently she had to take a leave of absence. There is a formal investigation into him. What is the timeline this should take ? And should he be allowed to have 1on1 talks with other staff members?. He is in damage control now trying to buy everyone lunch and doing his own PR tour. Month into investig doesn't seem like much has happend yet.

How is living in the west Harlem area?

Does anyone know of a place to get something notarized in the area of Grand Central? Tried Chase bank but they won’t notarize a deed.

Any dry cleaner recommendations for West Village?

Does anyone here live near East 83rd St and 3rd Ave? I'm interested in an apartment there but I noticed a huge construction site at the corner there. The agent said the construction there is now mostly just facade work on the top so it's not noisy any more, but I don't 100% buy that. If anyone lives in that area, can you please tell me if you can still hear any construction noise from inside your apartment when you close your windows at all? Thanks!

Hi, anyone successfully subletting their apartment (TF Cornerstone)? Would love to know how you went about it. Thank you in advance.

What’s it like living in Kips Bay?

Any recommendations on how to find a roommate in NYC?

Have a 2 BR in midtown east, if anyone is looking! I’m a pretty easy going 25 year old M looking to have fun in NYC outside of work. Clean and respectful. Classic hobbies... gym, sports, trying restaurants, etc

Anyone been successful negotiating the price of an apartment recently? Astoria apartment listed for $2k with a broker fee trying to get ~$1950.

Has anyone used kaiyo for selling furniture? Have a west elm couch i want to get rid off

Any interior designer recs for an unfurnished man’s apartment in Brooklyn? Aiming for an elevated outdoorsman aesthetic.

Finance guys - Need some insight.

What firm are you at and what are your hours like? I’m mutually exclusive with a guy who’s a VP at a prominent firm. He’s been very low communication lately and says it’s work.

I really don’t have the emotional headspace to be cheated on again 😞 I’m finally dating someone I really like after getting out of a bad relationship a year ago.

Be nice, thanks in advance!!

Will NYC be quarantined??

If anyone is moving back to the city/looking for a new lease in late July/August 1 and needs a roommate, please DM!

My bestie and I (30s F) are looking to meet successful/attractive/normal men. Online dating isn't working so we're going old school. Any suggestions on bars that single men frequent? Or places to meet guys?