I keep catching myself saying, “just one more year.” One more year to pay down loans, to get the bonus, to build my résumé. But every year, something new comes up and the goalpost moves further away. I look around and see colleagues who’ve been in this cycle for a decade, waiting for the “right time” to make a change that never comes. How do you know when it’s time to actually leap, instead of bargaining with yourself for one more year?

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Make firm goals. Not just “pay down loans” or “get a bonus” but “pay loans down to X amount with X amount in savings.” Then you have something to actually make concrete steps toward. That doesn’t mean you have to make a change when you get to that point, but at least you actually have a goal and you can reevaluate when you reach that goal.

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I have friends like this and it confuses me because when I say I’ll do something I’ll do it vs waiting for something to happen to me. I know it’s time to make the leap when I feel like doing it. I’m generally not a complacent person for my career.

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