I love this city, truly, but sometimes it feels like it doesn't love me back. It's getting harder and harder every year to get by, and I don't see when it's supposed to get easier. Is this just what life is? I get no one is entitled to living in any city they want, but who is SF even for anymore? Am I just being whiny?

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You're right that the cost of living in SF is high, and the costs aren't worth it for some people. Maybe you are (or are becoming) one of the people for whom it isn't worth it. This isn't unique to SF, it could be true for other big cities too.

Life in most cities can be difficult. We've always had our own problems, and in recent years some things have gotten worse. It's not for everyone. Though, in fairness, a lot of people probably go through a phase of being totally fed up before deciding that the place actually is where they prefer to be.

How is it getting that much harder every year? SF is the one city where rent hasn’t bounced back (and even overshot) post covid and may have even gone down a bit

I feel you!

Are you having a bad financial spell? Is this the impetus for the post? Or feeling like that + lack of connection to people as it feels like many have moved on?

What feels missing for you?

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