I love to read. I suggested a mystery novel to someone I barely know. He enjoyed it and we had a fun conversation about books and writing. Within 5 minutes someone who knows I am Bi asked "Is that your boyfriend?" Aaarrgh. Bi or gay followers of this bowl how often does this happen to you? How do you deal with it? As always thank for your input.

Planning a 10 day trip with my sister to Hawaii but not sure which island to pick. Which one do you recommend between Big Island and Maui?

What is the the vaccine mandate policy for EY and PwC?

Hi Everyone,
Getting an offer of 130k fixed canadian dollar and 20k variable for Toronto. Is this a good pay to survive in Toronto and save something back?
Thanks in advance for your feedback

Hello,
I hope everyone is having a great week.

I am working as Tableau/ Qlik administrator in london, UK from past 3 years on ICT visa with total 9 years of experience.

Visa sponsorship is required.

Any references will be greatly appreciated 😀

Has anyone had successful using the c0ff3e thing on LinkedIn? Landed interviews/gigs?

Hello Fishes
I was interviewed by techm 2 tech rounds 10 days back
Haven't heard back from RMG
How much time it usually takes, can I expect a call back from RMG else move on...... Plz suggest

Has anyone ever gone through the interview process at Citi for HR roles? I have a question

Looking to jump from the US to the Middle East and was wondering which firms are currently on a hiring spree? Any tips in targeting roles and getting my resume looked at?

Wondering if anyone can share the approximate timeline after applying to Target Corp. to hearing something from them. Applied 9/1 and on the applicant portal the status still says “in progress.” I got a great internal referral, but I’ve not reached out to the hiring manager. 😬 I know there were a few hundred applicants — what’s a realistic timeline and what could I say to the hiring manager if I reach out to them. Many thanks.

Anyone work in nonprofit tax? What exit opportunities are available with 3-6 years experience? Hoping to be promoted to senior this year and curious what options exist with this specialized skill set.

accountant said he needs my IRS pin to e-file. Can anyone confirm this is legit?

MBB interviewers: Given constant GPA, SAT & UG Program, what increases chance of an industry hire landing a generalist interview: 1-2 YOE at Big 4, ACT, Booz, etc OR 1-2 YOE at Spotify, Snap, Bird...

What does it take to pass final rounds?

I did decently well on all components (framework, brainstorming, exhibits) but made 2 calculation mistakes with one interviewer… already anxious as I wait for news

Does tobacco-scent candle truly contains tobbaco?

Has anyone ever heard of this type of real estate private equity fund structure:

-One LLC, so only one PPM
-Multiple investors that can be onboarded anytime
-Multiple investments that investors can determine whether or not they want to invest in
-One K-1 per investor based on their investments and income
-Ability for the Sponsor/Fund to invest directly, indirectly and in equity, debt, Pref, etc.
To me this seems extremely cumbersome and would require multiple classes of (cont’d)

Any EY Dallas LGBT Fish? 🐠

Is AAS a good area to gain transferable skills and learn a lot? Comparing to audit.

Facebook: we know everything about you and do hyper-targeted ads based on a comment you made in a post or message once
Also Facebook: DONATE BLOOD NOW (even as an out gay man who opted out of these)

Doctor rec’s? I was in DC before and I used to go to Whitman Walker, an LGBT focused primary care clinic, clean, efficient and friendly, and they understood the LGBT needs, like PrEP, very well, which is mainly what I need from my PCP. Is there such a thing in NYC?

Any EY Dallas LGBT Fish? 🐠

How's the LGBT dating scene at HBS? Are most people single or partnered

How many of you are in an interracial relationship? And what are yours and your partner's ethnicities?Just wanted to do a quick poll :)

I am in a long distance relationship with someone who is currently in B school. He spends pretty much all his breaks and holidays traveling with his classmates. Most of the time I am fine. But for some important holidays and my birthday, I told him we should spend time together. He just said it’s more important for him to bond with his classmates and ignore my ask. It’s really disappointing and I don’t know what else to tell him. Is that a reasonable ask or am I being dramatic?

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

I grew up in a nuclear family away from extended relatives who were never really close. Parents were either emotionally unavailable or distant. All I've wanted for myself was a big loving family to call my own.. my parents are unaccepting of my sexuality & my partners family is also quite fucked up so she's isn't super close to them either. Honestly this sucks & it feels like I'll never have a huge supportive family I've wanted & craved for.

Lesbian fish in LA or staffed on a project there? Dranks? 🥂

Thoughts on preferred pronouns in your email signature?

What’s up DC?

Any fish in SF

Anyone have experience with Keeps? Does it work? (M 30’s here)

So now that Bill Gates is single who making money moves 💰💰💰

I feel like I’ve lost myself since joining McK. My whole world has become about work. I love my job but I’m not the same person I started and I feel I don’t connect with my friends and family the way I use to. I’m not sure if I’ve grown, or lost a part of myself. Is this growing up or do I need to make a career change?

Holidays can be tough for our community - I hope everyone is able to find some moments of self-care and happiness today!

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?

Only recently started being out/comfortable being bi, but overcoming a lot of self stigma. Others seem so secure in the LGBT world already, it leaves me terrified how/where to begin. Help?