I need an advice , i have a coworker Marie and she gives me short answers, does not want to engage in any conversation, never says hello. I see how sweet she is with everyone but me. I’m just kind 100% but is draining my energy. She feels threatened by me based on what therapist says. I’m the youngest person, new to the team (not the company) and she is friends with my other two peers (right hands of my boss). I handled like 6 projects already in less than 6 months.

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She doesn’t like you. Leave it alone

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Yeah I agree with the other comment she does not like you. Just keep your interactions about work and keep it moving..

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Move on. Who cares. Not everyone in this world will like you and you won’t like everyone in this world. Best not to let small stuff like this bother you and just go about your business and focus on your job.

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Your co-worker just doesn’t have time to say hi. Especially if you are in project management.

Saying hi usually means small talk and that opens it up to process questions and before you know it, Marie just lost 1 hour chatting.

I think it is more her personality and what she has on her plate.

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