Started at my first real firm job after quitting a nonprofit and I’m loving the new firm! But I’m the only one with pronouns in my email signature… should I bring this up? I think everyone here is cis but it would signal inclusion when we send emails, no?

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Does your firm have a DEI committee or leader? If so I think that is the place to raise the issue. Our DEI committee promoted pronouns in signature blocks and website bios last year 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

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