I usually don’t catch feelings but this lady i have been seeing for only a week told me she doesn’t see us long term! We also got intimate. I liked her and thought we will get to know each other over time! It wasn’t a big deal in my head until she wanted to cut it off. How do I deal with these feelings ?

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It just takes time. Like a hangover. Sorry. There is no remedy except time.

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Truth

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You don’t like her specifically. You liked the idea of having a longterm relationship with someone and she came along. Explore the thought that you don’t actually know her and are likely projecting some personality traits on her that may not exist.

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Therapy?

You only knew her a week, so I wouldn’t be too bummed about it. I know it’s tough though especially when you feel a spark. Don’t take it personally, reflect a little bit and then get back out there! The right one will see you two long term. I’m still searching too 😣

Hit the gym, get lean, get the next lady on your radar.

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