If you've had a job hoppy career (3 years, 9 mo, 9mo, current: 1.5 years) but you're trying to leave because the last 7ish months at your current job have been ~11-13 hour workdays with 75% staff turnover (lost 31 people in span of my 1.5 years here)...and your ONLY offer is a company with 4 layoffs in 2yrs and pretty awful reviews...would you take it? (Especially if you're getting crickets elsewhere)

Or take a chance, stick it out and keep looking?

At this rate, my job will literally 💀 me.

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How does the manager at new role seem? Do you think it would be a good match? Have you done an in person interview?

I’d follow my gut. If you have pause, I would wait for the next opportunity.

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Nice enough, but according to past experiences, I am a horrible judge of if someone is a bad boss. My last toxic boss, it kinda took a friend warning me my boss was toxic and abusive for me to notice why I was so down 🥲

On a second thought, if you have any burnout tips please do share 🙏

Is Quiet quitting an option until you secure a more reasonable role? I imagine any hiring manager will sympathize with anyone not wanting to do 11-13 hours each day. That’s crazy.

Is that something I could use when asked why I'm leaving? I always figured ANY form of negative talk was a major no-no in interviews.

But no, no quiet quitting. A couple people tried and the work just built up until one literally broke down and quit that evening, no notice. I'm slowly getting there myself. Nobody can quiet quit because the work is completely off the chart unmanageable at this point.

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