I’m a manager. My director hired a member of my team from his old company. That team member is a low performer and seems resistant to any kind of coaching or change. I want to manage them out (and have the data/evidence to do so) but my manager seems to be protecting him and I don’t know why. Has anyone been in this situation before? Is my reputation, job, etc. in danger? I feel like eventually this team member will screw up in a way where the right people see and it’ll fall on me.

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You may not know the full story or the underlying reasoning for brining this person onboard - especially if you did not hire them in yourself. Document this as you would a normal employee and when performance review time hits bring your manager/director in and talk though the situation and ask them for advice on how to improve the situation since they know this person’s past history. You are not being paranoid but you may be projecting or over- dramatizing the situation unnecessarily. This person has no power to take anything away from you or ruin your reputation, job career etc. - but you do so tread carefully and treat the situation professionally and objectively. That is my 2 cents.

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Thanks for this, you’re right. I am just going to keep documenting. I’m mostly worried I’m not escalating enough but as long as I have made my concerns known and have documentation I’m covered.

Feel free to tell me I’m being paranoid or unreasonable too

OP why don’t you talk to the director now?

Hi!
Focus on the facts:
- what are the goals for that new member of your team?
- what has their performance been so far?
- have they received all the official training to help them be successful in the role? Who trained them and on what topics?
- what has their feedback been so far?
- what specific resistance have they been giving? Think of some examples.
Then, schedule a meeting with your director to go through those facts, offer solution, ask for their opinion and then agree upon the next steps.
Also, make sure to have as many things documented as possible.

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