Going through a divorce and looking for advice. My wife called my employer and filed an allegation that I took client confidential documents out of my firm. I have had talent calls....

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I second the recommendation to document. It you can prove a pattern of harassment it could be very helpful

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I disagree with the allegation and there is no client specific document on my personal hard drive. My PMDs really look after me and I am in good books. How can I get back to my spouse? Any other suggestions?

Document the incident as best you can, and everything else she does. Do not be surprised if she makes multiple false accusations if your case goes in front of a judge. Sorry you’re having to go through that.

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