I’m literally so exhausted with online dating apps. Why ask for my number and genuinely show interest then ghost me 2 days after? We were suppose to meet today and she totally just did not follow up. 🙃

Seems like there’s a few 30+ females in this bowl. Lmk if you are ever down for a brunch or dinner. I could use some gal pals 💃🏻

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

What are the best sports bars to meet guys on a Sunday afternoon?

Guy bumped into me while I was checking something on my phone and told me to "watch out" well if you were looking how the hell you bumped into me? (Wasn't even a crowd plce)

Considering dating apps—any insights?

29 M - Any one in Montreal for a relationship?

If you take a girl out to a nice dinner do you automatically expect her to have sex with you? In other words, is dating an exchange?

For those who are actively dating, how’s it going?

Dating my guy for 6 months now and he’s just such a lovely soul but I’m not physically attracted, there’s no spark and I’m afraid to let go but also afraid to keep holding on..

Anyone else’s love life so DRY that you find yourself having a crush on an older man at work who is in senior leadership? I keep it professional, but I feel like I’m doing something so bad by having this crush.

Has anyone met their significant other on salams or Muzz? Or any other apps? What’s your experience been like?

Hi anyone up for casual chit chat?

Could you seriously date someone who isn't on the same financial level as you?

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

Serious question: When taking a girl out on a date - do you guys usually split the tab or is it more common to pick up the tab as the guy? I know it varies person to person but curious what the general consensus here is. Input from women and men appreciated!

Kinda bummed. I’ve been single for 6 years (I’m 31 now). I live in ptown and talk to guys in Boston on tinder. Was talking to a guy for about a week who is my type. I asked if he wanted to FaceTime tonight and he said sure but caveated that he isn’t into long distance (ptown to Boston) and that we would most likely stick to chatting. Idk what’s wrong with me. Everyone tells me I’m a catch but guys I’m attracted to are never into me 😭 just needed to vent

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

Do men in their 30s actually want to settle down and get married? It seems like most are pretty happy with their single lifestyle. Asking as a 26F who is looking for commitment if I should even bother

Any divorcee or single mom 🐠 here? I am separated, and it’s just been hard dating the other cohort. Looking for someone who understands what I have been through. 35 M here

I saw my friends text messages (iPhone) and saw that she was texting a guy she shouldn’t be texting. She told me that the “Maybe” function on her iphone is glitching & the wrong name shows up. Cont.

Any advice on finding a pre-mba internship in tech? Will begin firing off cold emails soon unless there's a more tactful way of getting this going!

Is 80k decent for south east at a RSM/BDO/GT size firm for S1?

Does anyone live off the Montrose L stop? How do you like the neighborhood?

Any recs for a solid men’s body wash with a good but not very strong scent? Tired of Axe and other mediocre brands. Like the Kiehls at equinox but don’t wanna drop that much $$ either

Currently working contract at social tech company and i hate it . The culture is not an inclusive work environment at all. Anybody can recommend a company with with supportive work culture?

I’m at Withum, a public accounting firm, and the company is currently hiring a range of positions from entry-level staff accountants (audit and tax) with a start date of November 2023 to senior managers.
Withum is ranked 22 in the nation by INSIDE Public Accounting and also received many other accolades (Forbes, Fortune, Vault, etc.). I want to help people out, so if you are interested, please shoot me a message!

Guys - A seasoned BSA looking for PO / PrM opportunities in asset and wealth management firms. Is anyone willing to refer me to their team or forward me to their acquaintances? Appreciate it.

Hi Everyone,
Can anyone please refer my profile ..
7+ years experience ...
Skills - iOS , Swift, Objective C .
Serving Notice
Location - Hyderabad.

Do we get anything on diwali from optum

Hi Fishes,

Need your suggestion.
Wanted to decline an offer (which I had accepted earlier) stating location contraint, but now they have given location of my choice.Still I don't want to join.

How should I deal with company in this scenario.

B1 to B2 , how much hike will get in cg, eligibility criteria?

Over the last couple of months I’ve interviewed for a number of jobs and made it to second and third round interviews but never got an offer. My last interview was on Monday and I got feedback that I did not get selected because it did not seem like I was a a team player. Ive got three interviews coming up and l am wondering how I can improve my chances of getting an offer. Any ideas are welcome. I need a new job like yesterday.

How many unread e-mails do you have in your box right now?

“The best minds of my generation are thinking about how to make people click ads” ~ Facebook data founder.

Is it wrong that we idolize FAANG? Should the govt intervene in business and privacy?

6 PM- This bowl will be lit 🔥

More lit than ever!!

Has anyone been with someone with a really small one? What was your experience like? I recently started seeing someone with the tiniest one I’ve ever seen (like an inch). I’m ok with it, but he’s clearly insecure and I want to be understanding

Queer life in Hawaii? Anyone have any experiences living there?

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

Any married gay couple give (or planning to give) red envelopes during Lunar New Year?

Are poppers bad? Are they frying our brains? Post your thots below

Facebook: we know everything about you and do hyper-targeted ads based on a comment you made in a post or message once
Also Facebook: DONATE BLOOD NOW (even as an out gay man who opted out of these)

I’m a really good matchmaker. Like...actually really good. I’m thinking about starting a business. Would you consider a matchmaker?

Any non-cishet male folks want to chat? Missing community right now!

things to do in Vegas? favorite restaurants, hotels, spas, etc?

Holidays can be tough for our community - I hope everyone is able to find some moments of self-care and happiness today!

I could be your next husband. Slide in my DMs to find out.

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?

I need to switch teams or firms. Been here for a year and no development or projects with my team. Gay network help! Lol

Ryan Murphy is the new Aaron Spelling. Big rich producer making money off of cheesy shlock. I guess you can’t take the Indiana out of the boy. Heart’s in the right place though. Bless his heart.

I am in a long distance relationship with someone who is currently in B school. He spends pretty much all his breaks and holidays traveling with his classmates. Most of the time I am fine. But for some important holidays and my birthday, I told him we should spend time together. He just said it’s more important for him to bond with his classmates and ignore my ask. It’s really disappointing and I don’t know what else to tell him. Is that a reasonable ask or am I being dramatic?

Anyone at the Q center today/this week?

I grew up in a nuclear family away from extended relatives who were never really close. Parents were either emotionally unavailable or distant. All I've wanted for myself was a big loving family to call my own.. my parents are unaccepting of my sexuality & my partners family is also quite fucked up so she's isn't super close to them either. Honestly this sucks & it feels like I'll never have a huge supportive family I've wanted & craved for.

Can Grindr be used as a dating app?