For those who are actively dating, how’s it going?

Do I have a crush on one of my portfolio school instructors or has it just been 322 days since I last felt the touch of a man?

Best ways to haze the new guys? Go:

I don’t use dating apps for dating. I match w/men & quickly move to text. A week later, we meet. I analyze their psychological makeup, set boundaries (only kissing). They want to meet again. I can’t. So we connect via text/video calls. I show my vulnerabilities, insecurities. They open. Trust is built. Subtly, I help them face their blindspots (mostly emotions little boys are taught to repress). Friendship replaces romance & I gently release them back into the dating pool. This is my work.

35 F NYC very attractive in the Tall, Dark and Beautiful sense.. not a PPMD but looking to date one.. lol

I went to a masseur in LV last week and this massage turned sensual. He texts me today saying he’s HIV + undetectable and he tested positive for gonorrhea yesterday. This was my first such massage experience and I feel my world has fallen apart. Our genitals touched and kisses. I did my tests this morning and waiting for results. 😌😌 why didn’t he share this before booking an appt! 😭

Since the cuffing season is coming, where in LA is best to meet singles? New to LA and not used to the huge spread out of the city.

Any guys in Jersey or the Philly area? 27 year old single black male here. I’m open to chatting and make new friends! 🙂

Anyone know a good date option for 1st date - I’m in north county but taking out a girl who doesn’t drink on Friday night , so I don’t want to pressure her with a bar setting.

Which is better. Dating apps or meeting someone in person?

I had higher expectations for this bowl. You’re in your 30’s/40’s and looking for a hookup? 😒

Looking to meet a F as well. 31M. NY/NJ/CT area. Short, stodgy and balding (imagine a brown George Costanza). Actually, no glasses - I had vision correction surgery. Any takers?

Picked my show date. 2 weeks bulking then I begin show cut 💪💪💪

Has anyone here used Find Femmes or any similar dating service to find more feminine women? I’m femme4femme and am interested in something like this bc I don’t see many femmes on dating apps

How many of you have hooked up with someone at work? Why was this the best and/or worst decision of your entire life?

Anyone feeling sexually hyper active? Sometimes I feel craving sex like crazy. Like one partner is never enough for me. Always want a new one.

Official diagnosed with adhd two years ago

Hi Fishes,
I am a chilled guy looking for a room in a fully furnished 3/4 bhk flat in Gurgaon. I can move in asap. I mostly keep to myself but don't mind partying

Men in their 40s who are open to dating women in their 20s are a gigantic flaming red flag

Hi Everyone
I am planning to do a short bike ride today evening to Lonavala
Any F interested to accompany me?

24yr old female working in NYC (if that ever happens again) who's really just looking for someone to laugh with. The cynic in me is often overtaken by the joy I get from doing small things to (..cont)

Anyone ever heard of the firm Spire law?

1st year in litigation at a v100. I frequently work on matters outside of Florida. Is it worth taking the UBE?

How much trouble is Elon Musk in do you think?

Curious - what do you want out of life? Why do you want that? What is your “why” and “how” for what you’re working towards?

Marriott Category 4. Original room had a broken AC and a live cockroach (killed it). New room also had a broken AC, maintenance came and fixed it — although it’s still not cooling too well.

How many points.

MBB folks on H1-B who recently switched to FAANG - did you run into any issues with visa transfer? My transfer has been filed and I’m a bit nervous about USCIS’ perception of consultants and the current sentiment around H1-B visas.

Are farewell letters common practice? Or do people ghost out?

Where to check ratings in my wipro

Got wrecked on Verbal on my practice exam - specifically SC. Any tips on how to improve?

Recommendations for things to do in st pete tampa. Food, fun activities, etc. Toddler friendly pls..thanks!!

Y’all, anything good? In town for the next two days! Favorite experience or food? Tryna get cultured 🙏

Looking for a small pouch with strap/wristlet that I can keep in my work bag to help organize that bag but also can carry separately when I need to do things around the office and carry just my phone/small wallet/access card. Budget is approx 1K - any recs? Thanks!

What do y’all think about the new Copyright Small Claims courts that will be set up within the year?

Is Art Director’s Club (ADC) worth submitting work into for their awards show? I know its not on the scale of Cannes or D&AD.

Has anyone had any trouble passing the FINRA exams or are they fairly straightforward?

Watching Nile live on a Saturday night ...can't beat it :)

Anyone at a mid size firm in DC I can talk to. I work at one already and would like to speak to other about their experiences.

I think the take that "people only started to cancel Kanye when he was anti-semitic" is ridiculous. The only reason he's actually losing deals and contracts now is MONEY. After he made the anti-semitic comments Adidas stock dropped 17% lmao. People complained and stopped supporting him on a small scale before he made those comments, but I think we (I'm Black) should have put our money where our mouths were instead and not given him a pass for so long.

How do you respond when straight white men and women attorneys make comments about how you do too much "non-billable" DEI work?

For Nov 2022 I am on track to bill 170 hours after today, with an additional 100 non-billable, which includes a bunch of various DEI commitments. I am busy but I don't feel like it's too much, esp when the DEI work makes the rest feel fulfilling. I always say yes when law students reach out, even if we have to schedule a month+ in advance. I show up to other affinity

I live in a mid-size market. The community is not super diverse, but has been attracting more young people of color in recent years. Still, I’m one of two attorneys of color in my 120-attorney office. I’m really unhappy with the overall culture at my firm and I experience a lot of blatant sexism and covert racism. (Continued)

Today is the first day of the new work week! What are your goals for this week?

I have a panel interview for California DOJ on zoom any tips ? What should I expect?

I graduated from law school with some of the worst men I've ever met. I wonder what they're up to now. Probably gathering "grassroots" (read, generational money, and wealthy donor money) support for their upcoming senatorial campaigns. White men really can get away with anything.

Yikes, I was offered an interview for a nonprofit’s legal counsel position. Checked out the org website and I see that staff, leadership, and board of directors are all white. Like zero POCs. Should I even bother?

Can we talk about how hard it is to be a black lawyer in Boston? It’s an open secret that Boston is not the liberal haven it is supposed to be. But attorneys should be held to a higher standard. So, black attorneys, how have you dealt with racism at work?

So so tired of always being the odd one out. My firm isn't even bad or anything I'm literally just exhausted from constant code-switching and never seeing a face like mine in the office unless they're a client. Seriously considering looking for somewhere with leadership that is significantly more diverse. I don't have any proof but I feel like my success will be firmly capped here and I'll never have a shot at making partner.

Can we get a Black Attorneys bowl? POC Is triggering to say the least.

I am a recently barred attorney looking for Estate Planning and Transactional work in South Jersey. If you have any leads on jobs please let me know.

Does anyone stress about student loans? I have $176k in loans and as January gets closer, the panic attacks have gotten worser. I am in-house at a Real Estate company (making $90k), which is terrible bc they are going under due to the market. I am working to transition to big law for pay, job security and more technical skills. I am a 2019 grad and it just seems so hard to break into big law.

I just need advice on what to do. My mind is scattered and stressed! Thank you in advance!

Is going to a small firm actually worth it for WLB or is it just taking a pay cut to have substantially the same hours/stress levels? Considering a move to a smaller firm for mental health but not sure if it’ll end up being more of the same.

What are you supposed to do when someone mails you a Christmas card with a picture of their family on it? Can i just text them to say thanks or even better "piss off?"

I don't understand it. In this day and age my true friends I'll either see in a week or two, and can see their family on the gram if I want to. But connections within my profession insist on sending these things every year.

Is this a boomer tradition like working in the office 5