I’m so paranoid I’ll lose my job (layoffs, client will bitch about trivial thing) that I take on too much, have no boundaries and martyr myself… which means I probably will mess up and cause myself to get fired. Keeps me up at night.

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You need to either 1- find self-confidence or more permanent validation through achievements that gives you some benevolent swagger or 2- build up such a good nest egg that your MO is ‘I don’t give a f if they don’t like me and fire me. I’ve got plenty of $ to hold me over to the next gig.’

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