Boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot for a while. He broke up with me, but then we decided to try to make it work after we talked. I don’t want to end my relationship. Any ideas how to save and salvage a relationship on the bricks of ending

How do you manage a long distance relationship? I got engaged 3 months ago and my fiancé and I live in different cities. I just can’t stop thinking about her and feel horrible there on.

Does anyone think that it’s wrong to just not need a lot of companionship? I have an SO, decent family members and I guess a few friends. And I really don’t feel the desire to surround myself with peo

Recommendations of infant/toddler daycare near park hill neighborhood? I work in downtown so downtown area can also be considered. Thanks!

Is my relationship worth it? Met my SO of 3 years senior year of college. Hoped we would graduate and start our full time jobs together, but my SO is unfortunately still in school (switched majors, transferred schools, etc). Our relationship has taken a big hit, as I am moving forward with my life but he is still in school and can’t find a job. I am also starting to resent him and he is turning more insecure. I am only 23, is this worth it?

Asking for a friend - anyone staying in a marriage just for the kid(s)?

It's not like the marriage is terrible or unhealthy, but they would take an out if not for having had the kids.

Anyone else experience this? I'm wondering how common this is.

Has anyone been through a situation that you were in a terrible relationship ( stress,anger, fights, swears, physical abuse, ego clashes) and how did you resolve it? Some might have worked on and stayed in the relationship and some might have broken up. I am looking for answers from both sides. How did you stay/work on it and how did you break up and move on? Me and my partner have strong feelings for eachother and are almost inseparable despite going through so much.

Yesterday my younger brother called me looking for good hidden swimming spots in the mountains. He was up there with a bunch of friends and their original plans had fallen apart hard. And I go much more often than he does.

I told him I had map pins that are EXACTLY what you need for these hard to find places. I can send them in 10 mins when I get home.

Reply? Forget it, I'm all set.

Yep, 10 mins is too long. Here I was expecting "Wow! That's fantastic!" How silly of me.

Just got divorced after being separated for a year. Any suggestions for places to go and meet new folks?

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

Any expats here face pushback from your family for moving to a different country? They always try to shame me for moving so far away around the holidays...

For parents with school-age kiddos (kindergarten up), what do you do for childcare? Thinking about giving up our nanny, but worried about juggling days off, sick days, and summer break.

Can we all agree that gender reveal parties are an annoying thing to subject your friends to?

So uhhh anyone need a house sitter the week before memorials day weekend? Wanted to visit the city and go to the office a few days but my friend who I usually crash with is out of town

Why doesn't my wife get that it's just me and the great dane now. She making this awkward wanting some room in the bed.

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

How is everyone taking time to indulge in Self Care now that most of us are either about to go back to work, or have started back up with students? I’m having mixed feelings of going back on my end and would love to hear how others are feeling too!

Ugh Libby's family is just as toxic as Andrei!

I’m excited to marry my SO in a few months but I have severe stage fright and do not like being the center of attention. Any advice on how to reduce the anxiety and just enjoy the day?

I hate it when people try to bond with me over trauma when their trauma is that they fight a lot with their spouse or they didn’t get the promotion they wanted. How is that staring death in the face??

How to overcome a breakup. I'm heartbroken 😭

Given crazy market returns recently, do you still expect the market to rise at 10% over the next 30 years?

LinkedIn banner photos? Yes or no.

Hi producer friends! I’ve got a project shooting in Vancouver. Looking to get a sense of non-union talent fees. It’s been a while since I shot there.

Anyone have recs for a really good couch cleaner?

Anyone found the silver / bronze winners for Creative Circle yet?

I have been working in sales/account management for 7 years. My ctc is 8 lpa. I feel I'm paid less. What should be the ideal salary considering the experience i have

Any suggestions for IOS puzzle games that double as sneaky mental health breaks?

Hey Fishes, What is AME Tech in Accenture- DCN Internal ? I have been assigned this project. It would be great if someone can give a brief about it please. Accenture India Accenture

Looking to target PE firms as clients, need to do some research on how they work so we can speak intelligently when trying to sell operational work to them. Any book recommendations ?

One of my frustrations with myself (writing it out here so I can work on it) is that I will print out something that I need, such as a traffic collision report. I will read it without actually reading it. This results in spending time without actually retaining info. Does this happen to anyone else? I’ve found that I can actually focus when I truly force myself, but often this happens after I’ve discovered an error or an important piece of information that I should have noticed earlier.

I recently completed two rounds of Interview,
01 with the hiring managers (Senior Vice President & Vice President) and second was with the Director, the second round happened approx. 2 weeks back, currently my job application status shows as "Business Review" can someone shed a light on what this means and how long does it take for Citi to get back with an answer i.e. am i selected or rejected.

Those who recently joined ARA how was the transition? Any advise on what I can look/research on now to help on my first couple of assignments?

Hi folks,

I have newly joined Thoughtworks. Was hoping to get some help from fellow thoughtworkers.
Other allowances from ctc is not included in compensation plan. How will it be paid then? Directly at the end of the year?

Hii all, I got an offer from KGS as Associate 2, with 8lpa, should I accept the offer?

Does anyone know what the starting salaries are for a consultant vs senior consultant at Deloitte and how quickly you can progress between the two grades?

How to find more accurate/ up to date salary information.

I am seeing a wide band for my position [sr fpa, 60k-120k in the same area]. How do I know how to find the most accurate comp.

I'm looking to build a case for a raise and want to use what I've worked on in the company as well as outside comps.

What do you think a social worker with 8 years of experience should be making in Santa Barbara, CA? I make like 50k a year and I feel like I could potentially be making more if I leave my current job. Just want to know for sure before I start looking since it's a risky time to be leaving work. TIA.

Have been unemployed for 7 months- it’s been pretty hard, anyone know of opportunities? Mainly business strategy in tech. 10 yrs exp, 5 years post grad school, extensive startup experience (open loc)

🐠 who were counseled out & now unable to start a new job due to COVID-19 hiring freezes—were you able to get unemployment? If so, how? Not sure how to answer the application questions about how/why I left the company. TIA for your help

I think people who call or ring your doorbell are intrusive psychos.

One of the neighborhood kids is having a pool party for her birthday. I kind of want to walk over, wish the kid a happy birthday, and steal a couple of pieces of pizza... but it's Little Caesars. I value my digestive system more than to eat trash pizza.

Does anyone else go get a haircut when they’re bored? I’m pretty bored rn and I’m thinking about getting a trim. 35 for cut + wash + tips tho 🥹🥹. I cut it 5/30. Should I wait a bit longer? I keep my hair relatively medium length so I feel like I have to cut it every 1-2 months before my bangs pokes my eyes

“Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a mindset”

I think you're all OK even if all your beliefs are absolutely and terribly wrong.

I accept you even though your opinions are trash and reek of intellectual laziness and genuine idiocy.

Any fish in AZ wanna be friends? 🥺

Can we all agree that gender reveal parties are an annoying thing to subject your friends to?

My career goal isn’t to make it to MBB or a unicorn or FAANG. It’s to feel fulfilled and challenged as I progress. I can’t be the only one that isn’t title or company chasing.

Is it bad luck to pawn a promise ring?

Rings of Power makes me appreciate Peter Jackson even more. Holy F this is a disaster for Amazon, even Hobbit movies are better than this

Buying a condo with an HOA - what’s the average reserve % you’ve seen? My HOA is 23% funded, and recently raised dues.

If you attend a wedding as a +1 and don’t really know the couple getting married, what is reasonable amount for the wedding cash gift you should give?

What is the difference between fetish and kink? I thought they were same.

A squirrel just flashed me climbing my window 🥱

Confession: The only in-law that I had a great relationship with passed away unexpectedly. The two remaining in-laws were on thin ice with me prior due to years of drama, nagging, and disgusting display of wealth. I believe their demand of money and general assholish behavior drove in law to his death. I love my S.O. but I can’t deal with the drama anymore.

I want to have a family and a future that is drama-free and full of love and don’t want to surround myself with negativity.

Who doesn’t love a meeting free Friday afternoon?

I always buy the same clothes (color and pattern) over and over again. So in all my pictures I look like I’m wearing the same clothes since I was 21😂. But I just buy new ones every year 😈🧐.

Shout out to my fellow peeps sending out applications and messaging recruiters and hiring managers on memorial day.