Is it weird that my homies in the homeland are getting married every day and my homies in the US are reproducing faster than ever before and here is me, avoiding in person dates, eating Maggie while watching cobra Kai. 😏

I’m keep getting flashbacks from my previous relationship. I want to report him for domestic abuse/date rape charges but I don’t know if it’s a wise idea esp after a whole yr

Men marry their second mom.

I gained weight during my last relationship (probably around 30 lbs, and I’m 5’9”). Before my relationship, I felt like I could get any guy. But I’ve been single for 2 years now and it’s been so hard to date. I’m not sure if maybe I’ve lost confidence, but I legitimately don’t know how to get a guy to be interested. Any pointers?

Our 5 month old started daycare about 5 weeks ago. We’ve already had to keep her home for 2.5 of those 5 weeks due to catching various illnesses (croup, rsv, brinchiolitis, etc). Both my wife and I have been sick most of that time as well (gotten it from the baby). Wife is thinking we get a full time nanny for the next 4 months to help the baby build antibodies. Cost aside, is this feasible / worthwhile to go thru the effort / finding the right fit, only for 4 months?

Just 5 weeks left of school before summer. Is anyone else having trouble keeping their students engaged?

How do you convince your SO to accompany you to Varsity to tick it off your ATL bucket list??

I feel lonely in NYC. Working long hours without life. How to make new friends in NYC?

Do you ever get over an ex you loved?

Partners with kids and a working spouse, how do you manage? Is it realistic for both people in the relationship to work full time long term? How do you keep marriage going and career progressing?

I hate it when people try to bond with me over trauma when their trauma is that they fight a lot with their spouse or they didn’t get the promotion they wanted. How is that staring death in the face??

My mom and dad are separating (bad terms) and not speaking, but my mom asks me about him everyday. She knows I don’t want to talk to him or about him, but continues to bring it up everyday.. I’ve resorted to silence or not responding because I always end up being the bad guy when I get annoyed or don’t want to discuss it. Am I wrong here?

Hello kindergarten teachers I have a question for those in the New York area. I have a son going into kindergarten in a few days. My question is what knowledge is he expected to walk in knowing?

Yesterday my younger brother called me looking for good hidden swimming spots in the mountains. He was up there with a bunch of friends and their original plans had fallen apart hard. And I go much more often than he does.

I told him I had map pins that are EXACTLY what you need for these hard to find places. I can send them in 10 mins when I get home.

Reply? Forget it, I'm all set.

Yep, 10 mins is too long. Here I was expecting "Wow! That's fantastic!" How silly of me.

I don’t understand how someone can lie about loving you for 6 months. We were together for almost a year (broke up a week before our anniversary). I said I love you first and he said it back. I asked for more reassurance last month with saying I love you more often. Now all of a sudden he said he didn’t know if he loved me and that love meant marriage for him. Okay well great thanks for telling me this now, 6 months after it was initially exchanged. I don’t understand how he could do that.

I don’t know if coming out is something I should do or not anymore. My girlfriend and I want to get married in the next couple of years but thats not something I want to keep secret. It hurts me that I feel like I have to do that, but I don’t want to risk losing my job. I know they can’t fire me for being in a wlw relationship but they don’t have to give a reason. I don’t want the backlash of the community either since the area I teach in is really rural. Just sad I guess.

Am I crazy or do women take pride in saying “my boyfriend/husband makes twice as much as me” or similar statements

Any dads out here? Wife is 20 weeks pregnant with our first and want to connect and know from fellow dads on how are they coping. How are you helping your partner? Feel I am not doing enough. Except for getting ready with the finances.

Pregnant moms, feel free to provide suggestions on what your partner is doing which you really appreciate. I got the foot massage part covered. 😉

Any other lonely social workers in here? I mean a lot to some of the people on my caseload but that's about it. Don't have any family near me and it's hard to make friends with non-SW's mostly just because I'm too tired after work to want to do much. Do you spend most of your time alone or is your social time self care for you? Just feel like I don't have a support system!

I’ve been married in a Catholic Church before and now divorced but my now boyfriend says he wants to marry me in a Catholic Church someday. How do I even start a petition for that? Also is that possible to re-marry in a Catholic Church?

What are Key questions asked for Program manager role at Amazon by HR?

I'd love to see stats on divorce rates in NYC Big Law vs. general population

I have short neck.... should I wear polo tees...?

Best loafers bang for buck & quality? Let’s specify heel/flat and color

Looking for craft ideas for the first evening of a Bachelorette weekend getaway. All ideas welcome!

I am an elementary music teacher. I have been teaching for 18+ years. I love helping new music teachers. I am the drama, choir, band and general music teacher at my school.

Is it a fail of character leaving biglaw? I want to leave, but despite the constant stress and suffering, I can’t avoid feeling like it’s my fault or that maybe I’m over exaggerating how I feel. All my colleagues feel ridiculously happy, I’m the grinch one that’s never enjoying the grind (but the grind is hard and competitive, very competitive) :( any thoughts? Is there future after quitting biglaw so young?

Any big four hiring for indirect tax ?

I’m really into older women, just wish I knew where to meet them

Any Chinese/East Asians here?

Best resources to learn about stock options included with an offer? Don’t want these roses to start smelling bad in a few years..

Has anyone in nyc been to LM Medical for Botox? In Greenwich village

Hi Sharks 🦈,

Need some suggestions: My current company is on a layoff spree and 2 rounds are already done and I can foresee another round coming very soon.

While I am trying to switch to other companies, I’m not able to reveal the real reason from my side for the job change, as if I say, it’s because of layoff fears than it’ll reduce my negotiation power.

What other reasons can I give as I’ve just completed 9 months here and it’s too soon for any other company to take me in.

How good is to join @coforge as senior developer

Anyone independent management consultant here? What is the hardest thing for you?

At this point in the game it doesn't make a difference where you at everybody is getting laid off at one point or another the only thing I say is try to repair yourself for it if it happens to you

Any Indian Christians here?

Did anyone meet people through this bowl?

I am 39 F. Based in US. Looking for a person over age 39 and living in US - any state. If you are looking for a match let's connect.

26 F Gujarati, looking for someone in Chicago!

How are fellow desi single fish spending Christmas?

Fellow desi fishes, how do you all deal with loneliness? I don’t really have many friends where I live. Every weekend, I can’t help but feel alone and lonely

Any gyals in Toronto?

I wish I had someone to cuddle with in this beautiful white weather! 😢 (for context: 29M)

Just got married to a somebody I met through this bowl and I love him with everything inside me! Wanted to share that’s there’s hope for everybody!!!!

Now is a good time to wish MC to people who wish you HBD on your birthday. What do these people do with the time they save wishing someone?

Is this bowl active?
Tired of dating apps and the dating shenanigans!
F 26🐠 in Mumbai. HMU if you are in your late 20s - early 30s, willing to talk and see how it goes.
Not into casual hookups, prefer acquaintances over ONSs, just putting it out there.

Any Female Fishes in Bay Area?

Any smart, funny and caring Desi F Interested in connecting? Trying really hard to avoid the matrimonial route.

Saw a post in the confession bowl so I wanted to check this bowl out. Any hot, smart, rich and single guys in this bowl?😁

28M moved to Munich. Any F from DE or EU interested to connect please DM.

How many folks here looking to actually connect for serious relationship (potentially converting to marriage)?

I’ll start 🙋🏻‍♂️ 30, located in the US (east coast) - open to worldwide relocation.

Anyone around Columbus area want to hangout?

33 M.. any f in CT wanna connect .....

Desi singles, any plans for thanksgiving weekend ?