I’ve always been so self critical and it’s come to a point where I don’t like myself and I’m not proud of myself. I feel so mediocre at everything I do (career, hobbies, etc.). My career feels on the downward trajectory. I quit my last job with nothing lined up because I was so burnt out and crying every day from it. Makes me feel like I’m weak and can’t handle anything

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It sounds like you’re sick, not weak. Based on what you noted, it sounds li my e you’re depressed. Please get into treatment and consider medication. Are you feeling suicidal?

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