I've just had another miscarriage and my husband is encouraging me to take time off but I don't want to wallow. Do you have any advice on how long I should do? I don't really want to but I do know I need some kind of time to recover and pull it together. Just don't want to fall into that hole where you don't want to go to work anymore ever.

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You should take as long as YOU need. There is no magic number. When you feel like you're ready to come back then you can. Don't feel like you have to wallow to make your husband feel more comfortable.

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I'm so sorry. I hope that you feel like you can take some time for yourself. If not days in a row maybe a spa day or something now and then to treat yourself. I understand what you mean by taking days off you worry that your brain will just spend more time thinking about it. I went to school after a parent passed for the same reason. I hope that you have someone you can reach out to for support.

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First, I would like to say, that I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you are blessed with the family that you want whenever you are ready to try again. Please take the time off to grieve. At least a few days.

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