I have a coworker who keeps spouting comparative odds and situations in regards to the safety of the vaccine. Such as: you're twice as likely to get hit by lightening than have blod clots from JJ. It's very annoying and I find it to be really inapprorpriate, maybe because it's pushy or just I find these comparative things to be a bit irrelevant. How does one handle something like that? Can you shut the person down without starting a spat?

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Why is it pushy to share the odds of something as important as vaccination? it may not be what you want to hear but fact based data is more important than feelings.

If you don’t like it, ignore it. But I would ask myself why I’m getting annoyed by something so innocuous.

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Is it possible they’re just trying to make themselves more comfortable with it?

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In what context is the coworker bringing up these statistics? Is it out of the blue? If so, can you just ignore and get back to the original conversation? If you are having specific conversations about vaccines with this person, then just stop doing that if it annoys you.

You have no real arguments, but you still don’t want to accept that you are wrong. So you have an emotional response in “what’s wrong with you” style and try to label pretty correct comparisons as irrelevant. I fight it by just getting the vaccine. Because you have higher chance to get hit by a bus than to die from the vaccine side effects, you know ;)

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