I've never felt so alienated, ignored, ghosted, yet so confused by people. I don't know, I guess I'm not as self-aware as I thought I was, but a lot of times just the experience of job hunting and trying to survive and relying on people has been so difficult on me and my self-esteem.

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I don't really feel like I know what I'm going to do in my life because consulting has been pretty much become redundant, I’m not sure what I’m good at and life is just getting harder out here and I have no other options but to keep fighting, but I worry I'm going to get fired/laid off again. Also I worry about relationships because that's what's important in life, and yet I don't realize what I'm doing wrong with people that maybe I'm messaging or calling too much, as I’m trying to surviving and connect with people (living in Dubai, it’s lonely AF) and yet I get ghosted and ignored and it's so tough on my psyche.

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I am sorry about that
But if I may ask what do you do btw

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