Just made the conscious decision to go through cuffing season single and feeling proud of myself for not keeping on seeing someone just to have a date to go out with couple friends for the next few months 👏🏽

Biggest red flag (of a few I’ve noticed after only a couple of dates) was when he came over for dinner last night and acted weird around my dog and said, to my face, that dogs belong outside 😒 feels better to be single as a Pringle rather than being with someone like that.

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Guy here. Huge red flag 🚩. Kick him to the curb.

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"oh his barking is giving me a headache" 🙄🙄 you made the right call. Imagine what this guy would be like when there's a crying baby to take care of

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So for more context did he grow up in the US? There are many cultures around the world that believe dogs should live outside.. but to your earlier point.. you don't have to be with a person that doesn't want to have dogs inside haha.. just saying the red flag might be at half mass lol

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Seems like a creeper. Kick him to the curb. Drop the zero and find a hero.

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Why is not liking dogs a red flag?

Obviously dogs are important to you and I agree you should be with someone that shares that value, but there's nothing wrong with this person and no red flag from not being a dog person.

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Lol, that’s some really poor sense of humor, def not a keeper 😅

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My brothers wife believes the dogs should be outside. He likes them inside. They compromised and the dogs are outside. She’s a dog person and loves dogs, just doesn’t prefer them inside. That could be the case, but it could also be the case his actions show he does indeed dislike dogs, which would be an issue.

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😂😂 thank you! He’s the best guy and I highly recommend Norwegian elkhounds - perfect adventure companions and loyal!

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“I got a fridge full of beer,
freezer full of good aim
If there's tire marks at the Walmart my Chevrolet's to blame
My chicken’s more fried
My dogs live outside
Ever since George Jones died country ain’t been the same”

I guess it depends where in Jersey he was raised. They still got a few rural counties.

Still amazing to me the level of intolerance on this board tho.

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1) that’s a good song 2) I love dogs, but that doesn’t mean I want an inside dog.

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